Is it normal that i have a bf and a crush on someone else?

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I really love my boyfriend, but I find one of the guys attractive. So I guess that's a crush..?
I told my bf about it, and he told me that we can't be together and like someone else.. So that kinda leads to breaking up.. :/ But thank God we didn't.. I told him that I don't like him anymore.. But now, I feel like I still do.. It's just that, he's really cute and funny.. He makes me laugh all the time.. And he helps me a lot.. :/
But I don't want to be with him. I just have a crush on him.. I still love my bf..
So please tell me what to do.. Tell me how to not like him anymore..
Coz I really love my bf, and I want go be with him for years.. :/

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Don't get crushed by your crush.

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    • RoseIsabella
      11 years ago

      Tell it!

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Stay with your boyfriend and just have a casual sexual relationship with the other guy or just have a spit roast with them both.

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  • college
    11 years ago

    Yes, this is normal, being in a relationship doesn't make all other men unattractive. It does, however, mean you have to set boundaries with this other guy and yourself. This situation becomes complicated when you don't know which guy you want to be with, but it sounds like you're sure about your current boyfriend. Setting boundaries is the most important thing you could do right now, and perhaps not discussing this "other man" with your boyfriend.

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    • Cjay_DGirl
      11 years ago

      Well, this "other man" happens to be my bf's friends.
      And what kind of boundaries?

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      • Aurora93
        10 years ago

        Oh I know the feeling then! I'm guessing you solved the problem by now.

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  • Nokia
    11 years ago

    As if most males would not have their eyes on other females... Being attracted to someone else other than your spouse is too common and happens to most other people. The point is to not act on those attractions when you are in a relationship, unless you have a open relationship of sorts.

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  • LizardSkin
    11 years ago

    Is it normal to be physically attracted to more than one person? Yes. Is it normal to have relations with more than one person at a time? No that's pretty much the definition of "whore."

    Then again, from my observation, being a whore is pretty common these days.

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    • RoseIsabella
      11 years ago

      Ya know dat's right!!!

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  • Romantic-Princess123
    11 years ago

    When ever u c him close ur eyes and turn away from him. (not ur bf, ur crush.)

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    • bodazzy
      11 years ago

      haha good one

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  • iintolovethissite
    11 years ago

    Honestly if you love your bf but are tracked to someone else you need to a cut ties with that person ( and or risk missing out on a great time with someone you really seem to like) or break up with our bf because maybe if you feel this way he really isn't the one for you. And once gain rik finding out you should have stayed with you bf. life is hard but there really isn't a way around this good luck with your decision :).

    * damn auto correct

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  • Cjay_DGirl
    11 years ago

    And now my bf is really watching me.. So I have no idea what to do.. Help?

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