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I hate when theres nudity on tv and my boyfriend sees it... I feel so bad about my body when that happens because I feel like he's more interested in them than he is with me... is it normal?
It's normal to be insecure, but it's not normal to automatically assume your boyfriend finds everyone else more attractive than he finds you. Just remember, if he didn't think you were beautiful he wouldn't have started dating you. You should tell him about your insecurity and if hes a good guy, he will more than likely try to help you through it.
Seeing nudity is something fairly common in adult life, this is something that is going to be a burden to you until you move past it at least enough to not feel so badly.
Heyy sis, I posted something pretty similar to this topic a couple of days ago, but my case was that my boyfriend clearly says he loves big boobs and i am a cup B :/
This caused me a lot of insecurities to the extent that i felt intimated and very self conscious everytime he sees me naked. In my mind, he is only interested in big boobs.
I am happy to tell you that i got the courage to speak about it with him finally and i feel so much better now. After 2 years, i discovered i have invested a lot of time overthinking and analysing unnecessary situations for literally nothing.
You're boyfriend is with you because in his eyes you're special, regardless of what size you wear.
And pleease dont obsess over these thoughts, as i did, it won't do you neither your relationship any good.
I just dont like nudity in tv in general. Like I'm trying to enjoy the story. Love Spartacus butball the sex uhhhhhhg
He may show an interest in them on tv, but the reality of him getting his hands on the tv girls, probably slim to none. What about when you see men on tv, do you think about them or fantasize ?
So if you feel he also loves you as much then you should have trust between you 2. Otherwise with all the Netflix, roku and all the streaming apps its gonna be hard to keep him from ever seeing nudity. It will eat you up if you cant avoid that feeling. Dont let it ruin a good thing if you have one.