Is it normal that i hate the thought of my boyfriend watching porn?

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I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I have always asked him did he watch Porn, I told him I didn't mind in the slightest, yet he always said no, that he just thinks of me when masturbating.
Of course I had my doubts but I believed him anyway and admired him for being 'different' and I was of course flattered.
The other day he told me he'd been lying and he does watch porn.
I tried not to show it but I am absolutely devastated - one because he lied, but two because he's thinking of other girls instead of just me.
I haven't told him not to do it, and I don't think it is my right to forbid him watching porn - but is it normal to hate the thought of it?

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    You lied, too. You told him you didn't mind.

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    • Steve2WantsTheManagement2Reply
      8 years ago

      What kind of porn does anti-hero watch?

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      • charli.m
        8 years ago

        How would I know? That's his business.

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    • VirgilManly
      8 years ago

      lol.

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    Nincompoop. You are thinking about it way more than your boyfriend is. That's the problem with you chicks. It's visual aid. Who cares!!! It's not cheating. It shouldn't make you feel inadequate or jealous. You shouldn't really think about it at all. It's a personal thing and there's no reason to discuss it unless that's what you're into. Sheesh, kid.

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  • Treklover11376
    8 years ago

    My ex hated porn. The one before that liked it but I wasn't supposed to masturbate. Women are weird.

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  • Steve2WantsTheManagement2Reply
    8 years ago

    I hate the thought of watching porn, period.

    It's such a pathetic waste of time.

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  • Livellovelife
    8 years ago

    Make him a video of u masturbating dress up make noise look in to the camera n talk rite to him n de realy dirty

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    Honestly they ALL watch porn ( men) as long as its normal legal porn don't worry about it. It doesn't mean he is going to cheat but if you make a big deal out of it he will likely recent you and do it in secret.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    I understand how you feel, I didn't like the idea of my ex watching porn either. It's pretty foolish to think that way though; you're jealous of nothing really. He wouldn't want to really meet or fuck any of these other girls. Like dirtybirdy said it's just a visual aid.

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  • damarixa12
    8 years ago

    OmgliketotallyfreakmeoutImeanrighton. I thought I was the only one who felt this way.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    You both are lying to each other.

    1. Stop suppressing your emotions. Speak your mind. Ask questions, and try to understand your boyfriend.

    2. Don't become a fucking dictator. Damn right it's wrong to forbid someone of anything so harmless.

    Understand that porn isn't the problem. The main issue is the fact that your boyfriend lied, and you need to talk to him to figure out why he lied about something so small.

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  • Cocomilktitties
    8 years ago

    I think it would be good for you to tell him how you feel. He obviously kind of knows that it's not the nicest thing to do because he was trying to hide it and he felt like he had to come clean.
    I think you are right to not forbid him to do it, because that won't help. But if you tell him that it really hurts your feelings and even tell him that you were really flattered when you thought he was just thinking about you, maybe it will strike him a little and he might try to stop.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    the thing with porn is that guys are just looking for quick way to get off, but they don't have any emotional connection or relationship with these porn girls. so you shouldn't worry about him watching porn, in fact you two should watch porn together it could help make you guys stronger.

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