Is it normal that i hate the fact that my boyfriend likes porn?

i think it does reveal insecurities.

and yes - romance books are chickporn. so yeah if we can read those to get off then men can watch porn.

otherwise it's a double standard

Porn makes my willy go pointy.

It's normal to hate porn but it's not normal to get so emotional about it.

It sounds like you have an emotional problem and the porn is just acting as a trigger to that problem. I would suggest on one hand, that you try speaking to a professional about this problem.

I would suggest on the other hand that, if you feel so strongly about this, you find someone that is as sexually conservative as you are.

You can get that in real life. Thats why prostitutes exist. Im serious though, its the same concept where someone is being paid to have sex...

Do you feel intimidated by the girls at all? Like you feel like your boyfriend should only need you for sexual fantasies etc? If so, you should ask yourself if you can honestly say that the whole time youve been with your boyfriend youve never once fantasized about something other than having sex with him? Youve never even closed your eyes and wondered what it would be like to have sex with a celebrity or something? Porn is just a fantasy that takes a physical shape. If i watch porn i dont watch the other men or women as people, i just get turned on by watching the act itself. I dont become attracted to those people, i dont start to think "oh i wish my boyfriend had a prick the size of this guys silicone-injected penis." i really dont see how porn is such a bad thing. If my boyfriend said i couldnt watch porn id be absolutrly furious. Thats like taking away something thats a very personal experience. Its like saying i cant have dessert after dinner. I know after a while i would get very angry at the person who wouldnt be letting me have dessert. Then we would have some problems.

If you believe its wrong because youre intimidated thats a problem. I really dont believe that him watching porn would make him love you less. If you just find it disgusting you should just turn a blind eye and let your boyfriend be himself. No one says you have to be involved with it in any way or see him do it.

You're probably insecure about your body. Tell yourself that you're beautiful everyday, because you are. When he sees the new confidence about you, you and your boyfriend will have more sexy-times ;)

I've already said my piece on this matter. Simply put, women read the words, men look at the pictures ;D

All guys have & watch porn, some just hide it better than others.
It's very considerate of him to hold off on it for your sake.

If porn doesn't work for you, that's fine, but I don't think it's normal to care about whether or not it works for your partner. There's nothing inherently unhealthy, corrupting or even immoral about porn. I could almost understand where the dislike for certain fetishes might come into a relationship, but so heatedly disliking standard, straight, by-the-numbers porn? Abnormal.

Are you insecure about it? Do you feel like he's comparing you to the actresses? Unless there's any actual evidence of that beyond the viewing of porn, that's your issue to work through, not his, and it's one you desperately need to handle, because you're likely to find other things (models, magazine covers, other women in the street) just as distressing.

It's very important to be sexually compatible with your partner. This is a make-or-break question for your relationship, whether you know it yet or not. Like NeuroNeptunian said, you should either work this out or find someone sexually conservative like you. Though it's likely to be a difficult task these days, with porn's ubiquity.