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I'm a 28 year old straight male who hates receiving oral sex. To me it feels weird and unusual. Any time a girl puts her mouth down there I go limp. Most guys bring up blowjobs all the time and brag about having gotten great ones but I just don't see the appeal. Are there any other guys who feel the same way or am I really that unusual?
its obvious women give bad head. they only do it to capture a mans heart in the first place . want blow jobs to stop, marry the bitch. you have no trouble with 99 percent of females you encounter. very few are cum hogs.
Do you like to give oral? I feel the same way as you. I can be really aroused and if she tries oral on me, my passion is killed. However, giving her oral is the most exciting thing for me.
I have learnt that I am a bit submissive. Giving oral seems to be on my submissive side. Receiving oral is on the dominant side.
I can be submissive in several other ways which seems to back up my thoughts about oral sex
You may just be a person who doesn't get pleasure from oral. I know both guys and girls who don't, but they have very satisfying sex lives. I dated a guy like this once. He didn't get much pleasure from me sucking his dick (and I know I give good blowjobs, so it wasn't me). So, I let him fuck my mouth, and he came, and I swallowed. It was like a blowjob, but much more intense, and pleasurable for both of us. You should try it.
Now, there are many different ways to have oral, and locations to experience it... So, let your kinky and wild self out for the most pleasure. Foreplay is key to any type of intimacy - the more you have in foreplay, the more anticipation you have. You may even want to try different techniques, or even the special KY warming oil (especially made for a guy's penis pleasure), and obviously sex with one person is different than sex with another person. So, it may take time finding the right person for you to enjoy any kind of oral pleasure.