Is it normal that i hate people who prejudge me for no reason?

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Hi,

I noticed this a last couple of years and it's really making me angry and sad. I am a really nice and relax heartwarming guy if you get to know me. But for some reason where ever i come clubs, work, gym etc.. and i don't know people the only look at me and hate me already and giving me nasty looks.. or totally ignore me when in company of college employee nobody looks at me when the talk i am standing there like OKE.. i am still here? I also noticed that i am being very rude.. and really HATE people who prejudge me.. or talk behind my back but the don't know me. So that other people will believe his/hers crap.. is this normal?

What can i do about this?

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    We see ourselves in other people. It's called projecting, and until you are able to love yourself you will continue to see hate everywhere.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    Sounds like you don't like yourself very much. Tell me: Have you ever looked at someone you've never seen and been like: "I f*cking hate that guy!". Probably not. You know why? People don't do that. Most people just don't give a shit.
    What you're feeling happens when you're too self absorbed - I'm talking from expreience. When you constantly think about yourself, you assume everyone else is thinking about you too; But they're not.
    And when you approach people thinking: "I bet they're gonna hate me", it's really really hard to come across like a chill dude, and of course it's gonna be awkward.

    Most of us like people who like us back. You know what I mean?
    Let's put it like this:
    If you were approached by a guy who smiled at you and was genuinely interested in what you do and think about, wouldn't you like that guy. I would.
    So really the trick is to just be that guy.

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  • xfg18
    7 years ago

    kill him. kill him. kill him.

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  • DuHast
    7 years ago

    It's a vicious circle, because the more they're bastards, the worse it makes you act. To overcome it, just dive in and try not to give a fuck what people think. Be a good, healthy, honest, great person and if people don't like it, they're the asshole, not you. Just keep trying: you put it out there, and you don't always get it back but don't let that stop you.
    But if everyone you meet is an asshole; you do have to consider maybe it's you that's the asshole.

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  • Anewbis
    7 years ago

    "What other people think of you is none of your business."

    ~Regina Brett~

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