Is it normal that i hate negative people because they get me down?

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Well I don't tell the my whole mind here, but I really saw suicide as a solution, already envisioned it in my mind several times, but I didn't do it, because I still had a family etc. to lose. Now, when I'm on tumblr and I can't stand all these Emo posts with "Oh, I can't do this anymore..." and bullshit. I still kinda understand these people, but it doesn't get better when they complain. I also had a goth friend at school and she was often really desperate and negative, which annoyed me really. (She said she wasn't suicidal anymore) Now I'm thinking as positive as possible, and probably the reason why I don't like suicidal people is, because they get me down really easy.

So I just steer clear of this negative minded people.

(sry for my bad english)

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    If you need to avoid certain people to be healthy, that's fine. I wouldn't classify people who are depressed, feeling hopeless, or suicidal as "negative", though. There are people who usually have very positive personalities who become depressed and suicidal for a variety of reasons.

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  • Kababaza
    11 years ago

    I would understand why it annoys you. People that tend to express themselves compulsively and negatively also tend to be people that do nothing to change that lifestyle; people that don't accept help or advice... But its something you need to learn to tolerate because this is how some people function; most of the time, its just a phase.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It's best to. If you don't intend on being their personal therapist and your goal is to be a positive person, you probably want to hang out with the like minded to reinforce your own values.

    Negativity really bothers me as well, but I'm kind of an asshole myself so when I see posts like "why can't I find my prince/princess, why am I so alone?" I'm tempted to tell them that it's because whining is for babies and most people aren't into the concept of adopting an adult.

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  • FruityGoofyFaggot
    11 years ago

    Negative emo people need to all simutaneously climb the tallest buildings, then jump.

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