Is it normal that i hate myself for being gay

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I've always been gay for as long as I remember, when I was young I always noticed the good looking boys, never the girls, but I only realised what this meant when I was a teenager. Since then I've hated my life, all I want is to be straight, so I can have a wife and children. Having a family has always been a dream of mine. But instead I either have to live a lie, or live a life where I get abused for being who I am. I just wish I could be normal like other guys.

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Based on 14 votes (10 yes)
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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Being gay has nothing to do with your self hate...that's something inside of you that needs to be addressed. I'm gay and I love myself...even though I too think about the type of lifestyle I am unable to lead it never inspires hate.

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Being gay doesn't make up the whole u. I'm sure u have other good qualities. An u can still have a family an kids. Maybe u could look for a support group and meet like minded people.

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  • nkwacky
    10 years ago

    Be proud of yourself, man. I am gay and I used to feel the same way about me too. But eventually you realise there is nothing wrong in wanting to spend your life with another man. Your love is also your best friend.
    I know life is tough when you are gay, but just be yourself, don't follow the stereotypes and be true to your friends. Happiness will follow.

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    So many people voted yes... horrible people!

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