Is it normal that i hate my sister in law?
I've been with my wife for almost 16 years. I love her, love her family. we have our own family 3 kids. (Except her sister and brother). She has 2 brothers, I'm fine with one we hang out go to strip clubs, brothels, we play xbox together we go to swinging clubs together, we do cocaine we eat at the same time he polishes my shoes for me before I go work he even buys me condoms and beers and even gives me tips on how to please his sister so its only right I let him get in cuboard and watch while I dominate his sister. But the other, i can't stand because he's on the sister in laws side.
The other brother is evil he always cock blocks me and says I shouldn't go strip clubs and brothels, but im young and enjoying life, he says im a no good drug dealer and he will tell police Im a criminal, he steals my cocaine and flushes it down the toilet he confiscates my beers and drinks them or gives them to charity.
My girlfriends sister is two faced.. She will be super nice to my face, but then throw me under the bus whenever she can. I lost my job as a drug lord about a month ago. Ever since, she has used every reason to talk bad about me to her parents (my gf's parents"). I live with her and she asked her dad for gas money and they said no because she was working at the time. Then when he said no, she started to talk about how I am living here and haven't had a job in a month and started throwing me under the bus. She has also started telling lies about me to her cousin and brother (the one I don't like). shestelling everyone Im gay and go to gay bars and bum men. I am a veteran and am having trouble finding a job, but am constantly looking. My girlfriends sister is also an alcoholic, heroin abuser and we have also slept together when we were both high last week and is only nice to me when she needs a ride to the bar. Should I shut up and be nice to her (like I always have been) or tell her how I feel? Whos the bad person here?