Is it normal that i hate my sister in law?

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i've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 years. I love her, love her family. (Except her sister and brother). She has 2 brothers, I'm fine with one. But the other, i can't stand because he's on the sister in laws side. My girlfriends sister is two faced.. She will be super nice to my face, but then throw me under the bus whenever she can. I lost my job about a month ago. Ever since, she has used every reason to talk bad about me to her parents (my gf's parents"). I live with her and she asked her dad for gas money and they said no because she was working at the time. Then when he said no, she started to talk about how I am living here and haven't had a job in a month and started throwing me under the bus. She has also started telling lies about me to her cousin and brother (the one I don't like). I am a veteran and am having trouble finding a job, but am constantly looking. My girlfriends sister is also an alcoholic, and is only nice to me when she needs a ride to the bar. Should I shut up and be nice to her (like I always have been) or tell her how I feel? Whos the bad person here?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Normal for a stupid alcoholic who's active in her disease to act like a cunt. The more attention on your status as an unemployed person the less people notice her alcohol abuse. Sad, but probably true.

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  • kayleeberry101
    9 years ago

    I'd have a talk with her since you seem pretty serious with your girlfriend and when you marry someone, you also marry their family whether you like it or not.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I call bullshit. I happen to be lucky enough to get along famously with my boyfriend's family, but I don't believe you marry one's family when you marry them. You don't support your spouse's family, you don't take their feelings into regard every single time you make a big descision and you sure as shit don't need to put up with them if they happen to be assholes, like the OP's sister in law. He doesn't have to like her or get along with her, because she's not the one he's sharing his bed with.

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    I think most of my in-laws will talk badly behind my back. However, since they don't do it to my face, I have no reason to confront them and destroy the happy family show we got going on. If she is being annoying, perhaps you could try talking to your girlfriend about it first before you confront her. There will be haters, you know you're doing your best and you owe her nothing, so don't let the words of a messed-up, rather hypocritical person bother you. Why care for the words of someone you don't care for at all?

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  • mike78
    9 years ago

    Keep your self confidence. Don't think about things you don't have. Don't think about things other have. Forget how others talk, think, ... about you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Buddy, to hell with her then. I'm fortunate enough that my boyfriend's entire family loves me, but the guys ho used to be his friends didn't take as kindly to me. They tried every damn trick in the book to make me feel guilty that he started spending his time with me instead of them, and he wrote them off because of it. Your sister in law is the one who's going to come up short, not you. Hang in there!

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