Is it normal that i hate my mum?

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I hate her so much, everything she does makes me sick. She's constantly screaming and shouting about nothing and ordering my step dad to do everything for her, when she just disrespects him by having an affair; she brings some guy from her work home and **** downstairs even knowing that I am in the house. Iv'e confronted her about it but she goes completely mental saying she can do whatever she wants because nobody does anything for her and goes on saying i'm insane and need help. The house is always a mess, she is generally just dirty. She lies so much even saying she's extremely ill and dying, one time saying she has cancer for attention or something. She puts on a voice when she is around people and is so conceited and obnoxious she tries to make out that she is better than everyone and rich, it just makes me sick. She hasn't always been like this though.

She makes me so mad, there's so much more I could write about her and things she has done, but i think that's enough

So what do you think?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Invite a bunch of homeless guys around and tell them you are making a a fantasy rape porno and that you will buy them all a bottle of booze to jack her bum

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  • enzyme1
    12 years ago

    after reading the story, yes it is normal to hate her she sounds like a filthy tramp that needs to be put to death

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  • Gfrigo
    12 years ago

    Didn't read but I agree. My moms a bitch too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    First I don't get why there's more no's!!? Cos she is definatly in the wrong and it's very brave of you to confront her about it I have the same problem (house,my dad and no one does anything!) we've just got to survive but it's completley normal fir you to hate her after all that

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  • Ambrosia
    11 years ago

    I know how that felt... after lots of time past i got used to my mom even though she is still the same as she was then- but she doesn't phase me anymore. I just give her a hug and tell her everything is going to be ok. and then she stopped.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Presumably you are close to getting out of there and can put most of your energy towards that.

    She's the kind of toxic person you will need to guard yourself from and have really clear boundaries and limits. The less you have to do with her and the more you can insulate yourself - the better.

    I have learned that I have to have distance between me and toxic family members. That distance varies - but they don't change and I don't need to be dragged through their muck.

    The worse thing IMO is feeling obliged because they are "family." That is a point around which they will forever manipulate. Let that go - and their power is gone.

    PS - that is not about love and caring - it is about self preservation and integrity.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I've got a witch for a mother but I'm in my 40s and live nowhere near her - so I'm only tortured on the phone!!

    I've proved this one.... The best thing you can do is to record her behaviour and play it back for her friends / minister / youtube. Once she sees herself as others do you can bet your bottom dollar she gets a reality check.

    Plus she'll be wary of how she behaves in case you're out with the phone again ;o)

    Go for it! Fix the bitch and get some peace!! She has no-one to blame but herself!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      thumbs up

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    She's unstable, she needs help. Emotional help. So why not try your best to be patient and nice with her, and avoid her to avoid fights, and being hurt. Just think of the time when you can finally move out! That should be a nice reward for you, but for now try and deal with her. I know it's hard but in the end she'll realize how she acted, and you'll feel great for putting up with her!

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