Is it normal that i hate my mum?

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My mum is constantly on my back about things that I obviously have not had time to do.(even if i have just walked in the door) She also points out everything I do wrong, no matter how well I have done. The worst bit is that she acknowledges that I know more than her on something immediately after telling me I have no idea what I'm talking about on the same topic. Example, she found an article saying that Wi-Fi causes cancer, which I then researched. The article said that it was a class 2B carcinogen, turns out that it means there is no convincing evidence either way. When I told her this she screamed at me that since she is a nurse(she takes blood and does nothing else) she knows much more than me and cannot possibly be wrong. I then explain the evidence which she very quickly makes clear she can't understand because I know much more that her about science. Here is the information I found on the topic. http://www.iarc.fr/en/media-centre/pr/2011/pdfs/pr208_E.pdf and http://monographs.iarc.fr/ENG/Classification/index.php

My other problem is that she very obviously prefers my younger sister to me by giving her nearly everything she wants but never had the money to get me anything and almost never punished her, she punished me instead whether I was in the house or not. Fortunately this part is no longer an issue, it is just here for extra context.

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  • rubbercock3
    7 years ago

    Put dog shit in the cunts bed!!

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  • NormaLeeSane
    7 years ago

    Your mom calls herself a nurse when she is apparently nothing more than a phlebotomist? LOL! Your story is similar to mine in many ways, and if your mom is like mine, she will only get worse as she ages - not better. My mother was a medical transcriptionist for many years - up until she was about 70 - but fancied herself a doctor. She even jokingly referred to herself as a doctor, often bragging about how she could diagnose diseases better than the doctors - and she was so damned smug about it that I'm sure her bosses (i.e., the *actual* doctors) just wanted to smack her. I'm not a psychiatrist or anything, but between her exaggerated claim to be a nurse, and everything else you said, my guess is that she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (that's my guess for my own mother, as well). I feel your pain! I hope you can find a way to deal with her that doesn't destroy your peace of mind and your sanity. I pretty much had to cut my soul-destroying mother out of my life if I wanted to have a life at all, and of course, she disinherited me for it. I figured she would, but did she really have to call me at work and spend more than half an hour of my employer's time telling me about it? Ugh. Good luck to you with your situation. I wish you all the best.

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  • susie.wagner101
    7 years ago

    idk but i fell the same way

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