Is it normal that i hate my mother's fiance?

You can starting making a plans exit this situation, start accumulating money and wait for the right time, use your acting skills to win him over and get money from him, makes it even more rewarding when you leave, don't let them notice that your making plans! There are friends and people that can help you when you leave, when your old enough

I am a single Mom, and I would NEVER EVER even thinking about marrying some man that is not treating my children right! Your Mom is very selfish, and she didn't care much about her children. You have the rights to be happy, and you don't have to live with anybody that make your life a living hell. But make sure you are old to be on your own with some money to start a life of your own. Life is still hard when you are on your own: get a job, a place to live, bills to pay.....i came here in the USA when I was 16 yrs old, and I was living with my sister and her in law. My sister and her husband was my guardian by law since I was 16 at the time. They put up a wall with a window at a corner of the kitchen to make a bed room for me. There was no heat or AC, and I am living in Virginia. The room is big enough for a twice size bed. My sister gave me 20 dollars a month, and I spent it on shampoos, toothpaste, tampons....since I have a guardian, school did give me lunches. For three years in high school, i packed rice with soy sauce and eat for lunch. I weight about 80 pounds and had eating disorder. Sometimes I got sick and could not go to school, they did not know until school called. I wanted to leave but I was not old enough and had no money. Then the year when I was 17, my brother got mad at me and kicked out. I walked out of that house with my book bag and no money. I stayed at my friend's houses, and my teachers they gave me money to pay foods and school supplies. I love my teachers! They know i was a good student, and they knew what is going on at home. I graduated with honors in 1994! I then got a part time job, got my own place. I attended college right away, and I came back to my high school to get my honors diploma two years later lol. I finished college in three years ( i went to school all day on Saturdays and Sundays) with 3.8 gpa, I could be happier!!!! I am now a contractor working for the DEA. I hope my story encourage you to be successful in life. Be smart, be patient, only have goals in life and try to reach them! Good luck!!!

How old are you, old enough to leave? And,according to your own words, why do you "NEED" him? If it's a financial thing, there are a lot of organizations to help. Of course,there's much less help if you're white. :)