Is it normal that i hate my mother

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I'm 18 years old girl
I hate my. Mom I can't talk to her
Everyday she ask me what happened at school even if there was something interesting happened I don't feel like I need to tell her
She always act like she understand me
When she asked me what I wanted to do after high school I told her I want to study abroad
Few weeks later my dad asked me that and he already know what I want my mom answered him and said "ya she gonna stay here with her family and gonna go to any university accept her" and ignored everything I said even though she know how much this dream is important to me !!!
My last year grade present was 96% but she keep telling me that's not enough !!
Ever since I was 10 she kept studying for me and hit me in the face if I didn't remember what I studied she let me study till 1 am studying for me my brothers and my sister all r so smart but I'm not as smart as them in school I feel like she hates me cuz I'm not like them cuz I act like I want not like what she want all what she think of is what gonna people say if I did something bad
She just annoyed me !!!!
I hate her !!!!!!
It's so easy to tell that she kinda annoyed cuz I'm not like my sister !!!

Do u think this is ok or I'm overreacting !!!

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  • DavidS.
    12 years ago

    To temporarily hate her after an argument is probably normal...to have a long standing feeling of hatred towards her is a sign of a problem.....your striving for independence and self-identity...and yet still are somewhat dependent and uncertain and still crave her support and love...she on the other hand also struggles with the same issues in the sense that she may view you as more dependent than you want to be seen and can even be denying and invalidating your attempts at idendepence and self identity...no matter if she agrees with you she should still listen, validate and support your choices...but she also has a right to spend her money how she wants....listen and compromise ...

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