Is it normal that i hate my mother?

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I hate my mother. She's so annoying and so wimpy. Is it bad to think she was a bad mom? I grew up tough, and somewhat mean because of her choices. The way she talks irritates me, her choices irritate me and I just can't wait until I can transfer colleges and get away from her. I'm not coming back for a real long time, and not even then. I also found out that she was pregnant (and yes, she is old)and it's sad to think how that kid will turn out. Anyone feel the same? Anyone know how this feels? I never knew my dad, and it was her fault. She didn't try because of her stupid boyfriend at the time. Now I throughly regret not making a scene for not seeing my dad because he has been dead for six years and I never gotten the chance to know him. Ever since I was 2 until I was 13 I was verbally abused by her stupid boyfriend. She never had enough balls to get rid of him. I still have scars on my back from being hit with a huge metal mickey-mouse belt when I was four, both of them did that. Now, I made it this far without getting into to much trouble and finally I can't wait to get away from her. I hate her, I hate my mother. I hate how stupid she is and want nothing more than just to get away.

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  • mr666
    13 years ago

    I hate mine too so I understand

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  • asdfghjklove1111
    9 years ago

    you. you dont hate your mother. you are just, uhh, i dont know what term to use but relly, i think you just want her to notice you. i mean, why dont you tell your mother what you really feel? she loves you, that's for sure. remember that always, she doesnt mean to do such things to you.

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  • xxEmoxPandaxx
    12 years ago

    I think we all hate our parents.

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  • __justanother
    13 years ago

    omg i fucking know this feeling
    my mother is a complete bitch
    i blame her for so fucking much
    i never knew my father as well hes still alive but from what ive heard of him hes just as bas as her
    , and my mum had a fuck ass boyfriend too
    she finally got ride of him after he bashed the fuck out of her and i never liked him from day one
    dw ur not alone i know exactly how u feel

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  • BlueStarsAreDelicious
    13 years ago

    I dont blame my mom for anything but I just can't stand her personality

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  • spam_free
    13 years ago

    Boo hoo hoo! You only get one mum...

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    • siouxzen
      13 years ago

      Boo Hoo You Only Get One Mom? So this means stop whining because you only get one?

      Well mine sucks and if becoming a mother had a test like you do for a driver's license she would flunk big time. Take My Mother- PLEASE. The ONE I have I want to send back to the factory.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    *can't blame your mom.
    Sorry about that haha

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You can blame your mom for your lack of a relationship with your father. The responsibility was his and if he wanted to see you...he would have.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    We all make bad choices. It sounds like your mother did. I'm sure you will too. The most important thing is how we deal with it. I don't think there's any harm in telling your mother how you feel (what have you got to lose?) and perhaps a break from her would be good whether you resolve things or not.

    You may surprise yourself and even start to miss her a little.

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  • Deeps
    13 years ago

    No. You just have a conflicting personality with your mother. She was not ready to have a child at the time and you have become the victim for that unwise choice. I used to be jealous of other children having better parents that cared or had a strong character to pull things together. But hating your own mother does not solve that. It only makes you/ or myself into a really bitter person, it dehumanizes you. It would be better to muster up the courage to tell her how you feel, but don't attack her directly, but the things that she did that made you hate her. This is easier said than done, and the perfect moment might never come, but i hope that you will find a way through it, not around it.

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