Is it normal that i hate my grandfather?
Despite being the best friend of a British officer back during the colonial days, he does not give a fuck about his family. He could have a nice job in the government and given a nice bungalow, but he spends his time fucking woman, drinking and fighting with people. He does not work at all, maybe he's wealthy, but he spend his wealth on woman instead of his own family (8 children in total!). He does not fed his children, house his children or give them a good education despite his ability to do so. He doesn't even give money to his own wife.