Is it normal that i hate my girlfriends kid
I've been with my gf over 2 years now and I just can't stand her kid. I tried at first to get along with her but she's just become more and more anoying and she's putting a real strain on our relationship. I'm at the point now where I can't bare to look at her or hear her stupid squeaky babyish voice. She's like 7 but does that stupid baby voice.
It's got to the point where Anything bad o say about her is wrong , if she's doing something wrong and I tell her mum , me and her mum argue and her mum says I'm just saying these things because I hate her .
I'm white and my girlfriend is Latin, the daughter is black with an Afro and this plays part in it too, I just don't feel I can accept this black kid who looks fuck all like her mum but her dead beat dad she never sees. She's definitely inherited his attitude too which I can't stand. I'm sick of the site of seeing that Afro Bounce around and even tell her mum to tie her hair back, I don't know if I feel ashamed , ambarrased or what, I feel stupid walking Down the street , me a white guy, the girlfriend darkish Latin, and then this black Afro kid, I feel everyone is looking at me knowing I've taken on this kid and I don't know , it gives me a bad feeling , it definitely hurts my pride.
The kid is also so anoying, always moaning , problems every trine during dinner , acts like a baby and gives me attitude , pulls faces and answers back to me , and seems to want to get right in between us . She's just so anoying , I even hate the way she walks. At the moment we have an on/ off relationship, I try and ignore her , sometimes don't bother , sometimes we play for a bit , but deep down I would be happy to never see her again in my life . Because all this has become apparent with my girlfriend she's realised I don't like her daughter and now we argue all the time over her daughter. I really love my girlfriend so much and I can see how much this is hurting her, we've nearly finished so many times over this but over the last few months I sensed less love from her. I don't know if this will be repairable and how it can be fixed , I don't want to loose my girlfriend but the thought of her kid goes through me . We're also in a long distance relationship and see each other around 6 months a year , so it's hard enough dealing with that aswell as trying to accept this kid that looks nothing like her mother and is a different race to us both. I'm not racist I feel I just can't accept the fact she's black too, I don't think anyone wants a kid forced on them but it could at least be the same ethnicity as the women you're dating .