Is it normal that i hate my girlfriend going out without me...

I can imagine the nightmare it would be if you two were actually living together. I can picture it now. She goes out casually, receives numerous harrasing calls and texts from you all night, and finallty comes home to you waiting for her at the door, being highly and irrationally jealous. Poor girl.

Please, for the sake of your relationship, this is not normal and you need to reevaluate the "reasons" why her going out gets you so upset. Its a huge turn off, and i say this from experience.

Even if you don't like it, SUCK IT UP. Because you will end up pushing her away. I was dating a great guy but he was way too possessive. Every time I went out with my friends there would be a fight that came out of that. Honestly , that's what ended driving me away from him. If you care about her, learn to control your emotions.

whatever sex you are and no matter the length or your relationship I think these feelings are normal. IMO These emotions are an indication of insecurity. I have had this as well, and when I think back on it now I realize that this jealousy was caused by myself not feeling worthy or good enough to be with my partner at the time. If you would simply try to imprint in your mind that you are the person that is simply right for your girlfriend and that there is no way that someone else could ever replace you, you would be far better off. It is a matter of self-confidence and really has nothing to do with the relationship itself

I think being in a long term relationship but living with parents can put a strain on things. Perhaps if you're serious, you should consider moving in together if it's possible, or work towards it being possible. Have you discussed it at all? If not, maybe you should. I think if you had that stability then this might become less of an issue. On the other hand, it might remain or even get worse, it depends. So if you want the r'ship to continue then I think you're going to have to take a deep breath and think about why you feel this way. Hopefully you can talk to your girlfriend about it as well. We all have our hang ups etc. and it's usually best to be honest about them with those we love.

She's a lesbian, she's not just going to cheat on you.

It's not like they grow on trees and are everywhere hitting on her. Seriously, if you put a hundred women in a room you'd have like two lesbians lol.

You need to get a grip quick, before you turn into someone she hates.

Oh my god! She's going out and having fun w/o you! Oh my god!
You obviously DO NOT trust her. You will destroy the relationship if you continue down this path. Time to grow up a bit and realize that you must give those you love the freedom to leave; if they return then they love you too, if not....

It's usually the girls you'd never expect who are getting double penetrated behind your back.

If u really trusted her u wouldnt worry. Its that simple. Some part of u, conscious or not doesn't fully trust her. That nagging 'what if' in the back of ur mind when she is out and about without u, is mistrust.

I don't think you're abnormal at all. I know two couples that have been going out for years, and they are constantly checking up on eachother. It doesn't seem to bug either of them, they just like to know that they're both and safe. I personally get annoyed when someone is checking up on me 24/7 but I can see why you'd feel like that

It's easy for those who aren't like this to just say "Change"

You might know that you are wrong, but it still doesn't help you contain your emotions :L

I know what it's like to be upset about things and not not why and not be able to control it, even though I shouldn't be feeling that way. But I agree that if you don't solve this problem it could cost you your relationship. I'd actually suggest going to a psychologist or couples therapy. You might not know why you are reacting the way you are, but psychologists are trained to help people find the hidden causes of their behavior and help them fix it.

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. You should maybe go out without her now and then to see how it feels. Maybe she just needs a break from you. You seem a bit overbearing. That's not to say she doesn't love you. I'm sure she does. But try to give her a little more space if she needs it.

Its not normal you should trust your partner nuff said...

You're too clingy and that will be your downfall. You have trust but not enough, if she's cheating you'll find out.

It's cool BRO! I'm taking good care of her ;)