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My gf and I have been together for 4years and I'm starting to hate her. Idk what to do she laughs and I can't stand it she Bugs the crap out of me. And she's Soo mean to me all the time But I can't leave
Well, no one is putting a gun to your head and keeping you there....end the relationship if you can't stand her! Why are you remaining with her if you "HATE" her?
You gotta tell her you're not feeling alright about the relationship. Don't just disappear on her or snap at her needlessly, tell her how you are feeling.
It's normal to feel this way when there is something wrong with the relationship. There are a few questions that might be valuable to ask yourself if you're trying to decide what to do about it, whether to stay or leave. Can you pinpoint why you started to feel this way about her? How long has it been going on? Have you tried talking to her about how you're feeling, and what she's doing to make you feel that way? A solution will emerge. Probably not one that will make you feel better immediately. Just, try to be sure about it if you do leave her, to allow yourself to move past this.
You are probably only with her because of the stable fall-back she provides in your life. On the one hand it is wrong to stay with someone who you are obviously growing apart from, on the other hand it is understandable that you feel way to comfortable to ruin the stable foundation beneath you. Best way to handle it would be an honest converstation, probably you have already started treating her different than before because of the way you feel about the whole thing, which usually means that she herself will not be happy or at least feel that something is wrong at this point.
Well I don't hate her all the time but it's just starting to grow I'm just goin to talk to her about it
If you hate her then dump her. There's no point in being around someone who's annoying and mean.