Is it normal that i hate my friends

I'm so sick of my friends. They are self absorbed a holes. All they so is complain, they never ask me hang over weekends cause they have hw or they are sick or they are hanging with their boyfriends. And the thing is I'm always there for them and they never seem to appreciate me. And then if I can't make it to one thing I'm always the bad guy. For payback I got invited to two Halloween parties and I'm not inviting them, flying solo, is it normal to hate your friends with a passion after feeling betrayed for so long?

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Based on 50 votes (37 yes)
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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    I dont get why you call them friends then...

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  • RoseIsabella

    Have you ever heard the term "frienemies"?

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    Yeah that seems like a valid reason.
    But seriously girls, stop being so passive aggressive. Talk to your friends, and state your problem and help them realize their wrongs. Speak up and stand up for yourself. Not only will it make you feel better but you will help THEM be better friends in the future.
    Yes you have the power to make them better people if done right.

    Don't have freakin arguements where your both shouting and noones listen. That wont fix fucking shit. Be adults about it. Atleast listen. At the very least please.

    I know alot of people avoid conflicts because of the drama but you know what sometimes there needed. Fights and disagreement are bound to happen in relationships theres no denying, its getting through it and making up after, is what makes relationship bonds closer. But theres no gurantee that you will make up thats why true friends are hard to come by.

    This right here is what happens when you avoid it. They will continuously piss you off because you didnt point out your problem with them.
    You cant be too nice, and let people stomp all over you, This world can be an unforgivable place.

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  • Sounds like you should drop them and find some real friends.

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  • rabbitandpig

    it is not normal.
    and,.... I hate my friends also. the are annoying, they do not ask me to jion the Talk.... ...
    so I feel it cool to be alone, and I raise a rabbit, that is my friend.

    but, I still have some one who is true friend , the one have the same background , the one who is sincerely with me. real friend do not be needed many ,one or two is enough.
    find the one who is like you,understand you.
    also , do not be alone, talk to the friend whom you don't like also, don't be freaky.

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  • Anime7

    Well I mean I can partially relate since I disliked the people I hung out with in high school and now. I still partially dislike them, but since I have no other friends who invite me to things I usually go to their parties, which I only find out about through close friends who are friends with them. They aren't bad people, they're just elitist nerds who on the surface are polite but if they don't have to be polite to you then they won't be. They just make me feel very insecure about myself and it's not like they even know it or if they did it's not like they would care cause to them I'm a pervert and a creep. They think of me that of that way though because I suck at first impressions.

    Anyways I get where you're coming from in feeling like your ear is being taken advantage of, like you're there for them but they're never there for you. Honestly the best advice that I can give, and I'll admit that I'm being a hypocrite so feel free to not take this advice, is to slowly distance yourself from these people. Try to find better friends. Fly solo since it sounds like you have other plans, which that's the thing about me, I usually don't have other plans and I don't like being alone, so that's why when my "friends" do something I'll join them, since my close friends are their friends and I don't want to be alone.

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