Is it normal that i hate my "friend" with bpd?
I have a friend with BPD, and I absolutely despise her. She has temper tantrums all the time if her parents won't buy her expensive gifts, even if they are broke. She twists everything I say around until it seems like I'm an awful person. She was complaining to me once that she thought that she sucked at everything, and I told her that everybody is good at some things and bad at others. And she then told her parents I said she sucked at everything. She forces her guests to clean up after her and to do her chores. She feels that it is okay to verbally assault somebody, twist their words, and treat others like shit but if somebody so much as tries to give her friendly advice, she claims she's going to kill herself and kill others around her. When my boyfriend broke up with me, she took this as an opportunity to try and date him, and this is coming from a girl (not me, her) who will scream, cry, and hit people if somebody so much as looks at her crush. She's a fat tub of lard and pre-diabetic. I have advised her to stop eating so much (her family of four buys five large pizzas every night and eats them) so that she does not get diabetes. She ruins everything she touches. I can't stand being around her. I'm sick of that fat tub of lard ruining my friendships and relationships. She has built up a false world around her. My mother has BPD and I get enough of that shit at home. She despises me because I'm not overweight, I'm considered a very intelligent person, and because I'm not a fat cunt that likes to make up lies about her family having problems to get sympathy. She has literally lived the fairy tale life: She has received all the love she's ever wanted, material things, and she's never been raped or abused. Me, on the other hand, have been raped, physically and severely emotionally abused, my parents are divorced, my mother was an alcoholic and drug abuser, and my father refused to touch me or tell me he loved me through ages 7-12. How can somebody like her, who is so happy and has had every chance in the world to keep and be a good friend to somebody, has turned out such an awful person? I'm a very happy person . HOW DO I GET RID OF HER? The last time I tried, she told the principal I was sending her death threats!!! Honestly, by that time, I wanted nothing to do with her and tried to put her out of my mind. I'm sick of her lies. Help. I'm a very loving and forgiving person. I've even forgiven my parents for what they put me through when I was younger. But she... She is below my forgiveness.