Is it normal that i hate my friend but like the other

I have two best friends I met them last year, Now I have a problem, i hate or dislike one but adore the other one. The one I dislike or hate is Samantha, she zones out all the time and doesn't even listen when I talk which means I have to repeat my self,( this happens all the time and it is so frustrating), we made plans together to go see her aunties puppy because, I am dog lover and she invited me (my other friend was going on a holiday so she couldn't make it), and we decided that after we go see the puppy we would come back to my house for a sleep over as my parents are going out and it would be more convenient for her mum. So she says to me "I will ask my Aunty in advanced so she knows" . I found out today that she is going to see the puppy Tuesday, Wednesday and thursady, and I asked her "did you ask your Aunty about Saturday" and she texts me back" what's happening on Saturday", Like are you for f***ing for real dude, we discussed the plan 2 weeks ago and you can't even remember. You know what she probably wants the puppy all to her self, that greedy b**ch and now her parents are dropping her off at 4pm on Saturday, and I don't no if I should still let her come because that is why the whole reason she was coming over so it was easier for her mum, so then I asked her what about Sunday and she says "sorry my Aunty is busy I need to give her one or two weeks in advanced because she is really busy", is she f***ing serious right now, I am so mad at her, because we disccsed the plan 2 weeks ago which meant she has plenty of time and if she still comes over were going to be board out of our minds because we arranged the whole weekend around that visit, I had to revole my weekend around that and now it's not even happening.
WHAT DO I DO ABOUT THE WEEKEND AND ABOUT HER?

I should not let her come over 2
I should let her ask her about it 1
Should I talk to her about it and try and fix it 5
Is this normal 2
Try and get over it and let it cool down 1
Tell her I am upset and frustrated at her and try fix it 5
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Comments ( 10 )
  • Freedom_

    Maybe you were being stalker status about the puppy and she's just trying to inconspicuously keep you away from the little creature.

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    • DanceyLucy

      The thing is I didn't want to nag her about it or what your saying would happen, so I kept quite and it still didn't happen, but maybe it's my love for dogs that made her think like that.
      Thank you for your insight

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  • WhiteStallion

    I had a similar situation in middle school. Then I moved to highschool and made friends with people I actually liked. During middle school though, I ignored the friend I didn't like and just smiled when the friend I did like was around. When he became annoying I socialized with others.

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    • DanceyLucy

      But there is one problem, that friend I dislike is friends with the friend I like but I socialize with all the main girls in our year level but my friends don't. I will always stick with my friends but I don't know what to do with the one I dislike

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      • Ellenna

        What do you think the word "friend" means? If you dislike or hate someone, h/she is not your friend! Oh facebook, facebook what language crimes are committed in your name!

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      • WhiteStallion

        I don't think you should do anything drastic. You have to tolerate her and keep the peace if you still want to be friends with the friend you like, right? You'll probably get used to this girl over time. As I said before when she becomes too annoying you can get together with other friends. Make other friends, you don't need to stick around a girl you don't like. Alternatively have a chat with this girl or when she tries to do things you don't like, step in and change the subject. Why make enemies when you can make friends...

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  • RoseIsabella

    How old are you anyway?

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    • shuggy-chan

      my guess it 13, did i win?

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      • DanceyLucy

        Maybe, how old are?

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    • DanceyLucy

      Why

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