Is it normal that i hate my family?

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First, let me say I can only get along with my mom and she is the only person who cares about me. I can not stand my sisters, my brothers, my nieces, or my nephews(My young nieces and nephews call me by my first name which I find disrespectful). I also cannot stand my sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law. They all live their lives as if I don't exist! My extended family does fun things together as a group but never invite or include me. I don't have a job right now and they all look down on me and leave me out of stuff because I can't afford to do the things they do together. Last year my older sister called me a bitch and told me to shut up when I mentioned feeling hurt and left out. She also told me that she was not going to talk to me anymore because I was not where I should be financially for my age. This same sister was nasty to one of my nephew's until she learned that he was graduating from medical school. Now my siblings have planned a cross country trip to attend his graduation ceremony and she talks about him like he is "God". Is it normal to hate my family?

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Based on 66 votes (53 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That sounds horrible because family is the most important thing. I say try and talk it over and lay low, im sure things will come around.

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  • vbmg152
    13 years ago

    I completely understand how you feel! Excluding my hubby & kids, out of my entire biological family there are only one or two I can stand! I hate my Mom, she abandoned me as a baby! At least you have your mom! You are not alone, my friend! I'd just as soon see the whole lot of them shipped off to some island where they can cause trouble & live their high & mighty lives without bothering the rest of us!

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    The further you distance yourself from people, the more they want to be around you. Be nice but don't be around as often or available. It is horrible the way they are treating you and I woudn't stand for it either.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Normal. I havnt spoken to my brother for 3/4 years. He's a total cunt, I cant wait for him to get arrested and locked up for life.

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  • Lia
    13 years ago

    That's a shame, I'm sorry to hear that. Just spend time with your friends instead, if your family don't show you enough respect. You say you're close with your mum - have you talked to her about this?

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    Murder your family. Your welcome.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      lol.. I aint doing prison time for the likes of them >:P

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  • soccernerd12
    13 years ago

    If u hate them, why do you care whether or not they invite you to do stuff with them. They probably don't because u r such a downer when it with them because u don't like them. Why would you want to invite someone who hates you to do stuff with you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      How do you know what I am with my family? Cousin Etta?

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      • coolio75650932
        12 years ago

        Buy My Band Candy Now

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Nieces and nephews call you by your name? WTF should they call you? Aunt shit fuck attitude?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      They should call me Aunt and then my first name. That is how I was raised. If you were not, no need to catch an attitude here on my post about our different backgrounds. Behave.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        Sorry to read about your family problems. That is just old saw in the United States. As far as people being rude to you right out of the gate, I have no idea why, but, you certainly have a right to have your views, your experiences, and your thoughts posted here provided that the content is not offensive. Peace.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          13 years ago

          My family must be from another country then The Land of Jerks :P

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      • coolio75650932
        12 years ago

        hay aunt anonymous poll creater wanna buy some band candy (yes band candy sellers are taking over the internet)

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  • precious8308
    11 years ago

    Murdering your family will be wrong, but you can distance yourself from them like I do my family, I do not like my family ways either.

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