Is it normal that i hate my family?

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I feel like I'm really different from my family. They are all weird and strange with society while I want to have a regular life. They're more liberal and only care about school and violin for me although I am more conservative and want to get out with friends more.

One of my sisters is a lesbian and the other one is a female to male transexual. The lesbian one spends all of her time on the computer and only has a few (weird) friends. My other sister/brother is overweight and has a million conditions, such as transsexuality, diabetes, depression, Aspergers, etc. I barely accept my sister for being a lesbian, and don't approve of my other sibling to appear as a male in public. Going through with an operation or taking testosterone is out of the question. I also don't like how my parents baby her so she has the easiest life possible. Whenever I talk to my parents about my feelings, they just wave me off and call me "immature".

I am currently converting my room into a "man cave" so I can spend less time with my freak family. Is this normal?

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Based on 82 votes (45 yes)
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  • Emony
    11 years ago

    People be mad... It's quite normal, but saying you hate your family because they are different is a immature thing to say. I hope to god you are between the age 12-17. Then it would be somewhat normal. It's fine you don't want to spend time with them, but DONT tell them you hate them. Just do your best to accept them...

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  • Cucco
    11 years ago

    Transsexuality is not a "condition" and it doesn't make anyone a freak. Niether does being gay. You make it sound as if being different in any way is a sin and prefer for them to be clones of your ideals.

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    It actually sounds like you're homophobe who doesn't like them just because of their orientaiton.

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  • DavidS.
    11 years ago

    i belive you that you hate them...but not for the reasons you say....your just trying to make sense of why you hate them...obviously they have issues...not necessarily gemder or sexuality issues ...but emotional ones...emotional disturbances eat up a lot of energy and leave little left for love, affection and nurturance....this lack of love and affection is why you hate them

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  • MarshaD
    11 years ago

    Lots of people feel like they aren't like the rest of their family members. My problems aren't exactly like yours.. my family all suffered from depression but I personally only get depressed when I'm around them. ha ha ha So that makes me different from them just like you. I had to hide from them growing up as well. When I wasn’t hiding I was running off getting into trouble. What a messy upbringing I had. ;o) I don't know how old you are but when you are old enough to leave home you will take that opportunity to make your life the way YOU like it. You will find other people that share your same interests and laugh when its Christmas time. Why Christmas? That’s when you take bets on who has the strangest family. tee hee

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  • I_got_a_cupcake
    11 years ago

    No. Being a bigot is not normal and f*** I'm a lesbian too. You're just mad that they'll never be with a guy like you. You might even have hidden homosexual tendancies by the way you discriminate against people with same sex attraction. I'm glad your parents accept your sisters for who they are and my mother seems to have the same view as your parents. My dad is like you, but I'm planning on cutting him out of my life in a few years anyway

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