Is it normal that i hate my dad?

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My dad is always mean. When I stand up for my brother or me, I always end up being yelled at. Then, he sometimes beats me up. I don't hit him back.
He only cares about my little sister, and says my brother and I are useless people who he has to raise. He's not the one working. My mom is.
He was the one who got fooled and lost a great amount of money by a fraud group. Now, we have to return a great amount of money. He always won't admit that he is wrong and then ends yelling at me or possibly hitting me.
I am very angry and want him to suffer from the pain that he has caused my family.
He always makes false accusations about my brother and I. Then, he curses at me and I stand up for myself. Then, it is my fault.

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  • TulipRose2016
    7 years ago

    Your father is a asshole. Call a social worker in your area and report the abuse. When your a adult that is when you ignore his ass and only meet your mother somewhere to get together with her.
    Your father is a failure and he is making himself feel better by putting you down. Don't take his verbal or physical abuse. Just tell your mother you will eat before your father comes home and will stay in your room when he is home.

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  • Itisnormal99
    7 years ago

    I would cut him off. When/if you're on your own two feet supporting yourself, just cut him off. I've learned that you really can't have that type of negativity in your life. You need to push yourself and do better to prove everyone wrong. It'll be better for your mental health and it will make you more successful.

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  • TheInvisibleMan
    7 years ago

    No offense but your Dad sounds like a total dick just like mine haha. Answer to yourself and don't worry about people like that. It's completely normal to hate people that act shitty.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Why not move out?

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Yeah so my sons hate me too.

    I was never mean, always showed love, kindness and affection. Always helped with homework, played with them inside and out including video games, bike rides, walks, etc. etc. etc.

    My Sin is divorcing their mother, marrying another woman and moving out of state.....after I begged them for over a year to come and even gave them an open invite after they refused.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Why did you divorce their mom? It's not uncommon for kids to usually side with the opposite sex parent, it's a Freudian thing.

      I used to hang out with this one chick who was always cheating on her husband. She would bitch about him being fat and out of shape, then when they joined a health club together she bitched to me that her poor husband said, "you'd better not be sleeping with that trainer". Well, he was right, because she did start sleeping with her trainer. She wanted me to feel sorry for her pathetic ass, but I just couldn't, because she was so selfish. One day I told her that that her daughter would hate her if she knew what her mom was doing to her dad. Her stupid ass actually told me, "... but wouldn't she just want me to be happy?" I told her, "no, she would her parents to be together". I had to cut her off, because I got tired of her bullshit.

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      • IMissMary
        7 years ago

        Well I didn't cheat and I was the one who filed for divorce

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        • RoseIsabella
          7 years ago

          Yeah, that sucks. I was the one who filed on both ocassions. Relationships are scary.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    You and your brother should beat him up and kick him out.

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    • blackeyes43
      7 years ago

      Easier said than done.

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    • richardgerecameinmyass
      7 years ago

      I should whoop your cats ass using my orange cat. You know how cats flicker their tails before battle?

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Nope, I should slip you laxatives when you're unaware.

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        • richardgerecameinmyass
          7 years ago

          Actually I kind of need them right meow. I have been constipatedcwhile taking pain killers for a work related injury. You should painalize your cat beast.

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            Nope.

            You should get yourself some fiber.

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  • richardgerecameinmyass
    7 years ago

    Tbis title made me laugh out loud for real.

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