Is it normal that i hate my cousin like this?

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My cousin is 19 years old. He is nosy. He is curious about everything and floods me with bucket loads of questions. He invades my privacy. He checks my msgs and browser history when I am in bathroom or running quick errands. He invites me for a movie or some party at his house, if i refuse to attend it stating my reason he dismisses it and then keeps on txting or calling me. He constantly tortures his own brother because he doesn't get good test scores. He always brags about his other rich uncles and their children. I just want to punch him real hard so that he could go into coma and that way i could live some peaceful years of my life. The only thing that's holding me is my uncle(his father). He is a very respectable man and stood by us when our family were experiencing some pretty bad times. So, I don't want to ruin our relationship. But my cousin is a total nutcase and i just want to tell him to fuck off but i couldn't.

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  • dinz
    11 years ago

    I completely understand you, your relationship with your uncle.

    However, it doesn't mean you have no right to address the issue. I suggest you just tell your cousin the truth or approach your uncle and tell him that you're currently having issues with your cousin/his son.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    God, I fuckin know what you mean. And you'll find that this is just one of many situations in life in which being a well adjusted humam being sucks.

    I have a 15 year old cousin that acts like a total dick. He'll tell you that you are a dumbass but if you retort, he whines to his Mommy that you're bullying him. He tries to pick fights with his older brother and if he retaliates, the kid cries and the brother is a bully.

    He's messy as hell, refuses to clean up after himself and is blunt about it ("dad, I am not cleaning this up. I'm going to play on the computer") and his mom coddles him if anyone, including his father, does anything about it. He's fat as hell and spends his parents money like it grows on trees and if you are doing anything in his house he'll be up your ass quick. We were moving his bro out the other day and he was in and out looking for shit to add to his collection of shit. We all have to coddle him like a baby and he manipulates his mom to protect him.

    I want to punch him, everyone does. But my uncle has done way more for me than my own family has and I respect him way too much. FFFFFUUUUU!!!!!!! Our parents raised us right. Keep telling yourself that. Maybe it'll make you feel better. Sure doesn't help me.

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    • TerryVie
      11 years ago

      Do it by proxy. It's not the same if someone else(that is not obviously connected to you in any recognizable ways) punches him in the stomach, but it's still so satisfactory if you knew for years that he had it coming.

      And i think almost everybody knows someone like that, i was lucky enough it was "just" a neighbour. Meaning i eventually got to move away from him, but didn't make him any less annoying for the time i had to endure.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago

        Tried, but he didn't show up. I moved away as well, but I visit them because my uncle is fucking awesome. Too bad his son sucks.

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    • gargamel
      11 years ago

      God!! I though my cousin was an ass. Nevertheless, they are both retards.

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  • OswaldCobblepot
    11 years ago

    I'll give you a dollar to punch him in the throat.

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    • gargamel
      11 years ago

      Lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Lol you crazy kids.

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    • gargamel
      11 years ago

      what r u laughing for eh?

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