Is it normal that i hate my brother???

My name is Chad, My Brother used to be a huge drug addict. He was caught stealing a couple of times and was sent to jail. My mom bailed him out of jail twice and he did not learn. My parents kept on buying him cars thinking that he was gonna use them to go back and forth to work well, it never happend. Finally, the last time he was caught he had went to prison for a year. On the phone he sounded like he actually wanted better for himself but fell to short.

He has made all of us so stressed that my Mom is so skinny because she will not eat because of stress. my dad comes home with attitude because he is tired of dealing with everything. He has a job now and is going to work. but why is it my mom and dad both have to support his girlfriend, Baby, and himself. i just have to sit back and watch but I cant watch him put my parents in a grave.

when he first came out and was clean, He was a totally different person now that he smokes pot but doesn't do anything worse, he has an attitude. He stays to himself all the time but knows what he is doing is wrong.. I don't know what to do with this situation. He's my older Brother I look up to him but it seems that he doesn't care about making a good impression...

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Comments ( 8 )
  • Sillygoose

    The only appropriate course of action is to kill him. Kill him now, I say!!!

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  • smexibabe

    I no u hate him now but maybe if u give him advice or help ur parents it cud make a difference just tell him how wot he does makes u feel :)

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  • Energy

    I'd probably feel the same way if I was in your shoes. Stay strong! You wont be living with him forever :)

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  • karmasAbich

    Hate is a strong word. However I understand that you feel this way. Your brother must have some issues in his own mental state to be making these mistakes repeatedly and not show remorse. I would talk to him about everything. Maybe then, he will see the affect it is having on his little brother. I mean, that should have some sort of impact. My parents wouldnt do what your parents are, and i don't blame you for being mad at him, but sometimes showing these emotions to someone with these kinds of habbits isn't always the best way to go. Be assertive when talking to your brother, but be understanding as well. Hopefully I made sense and I hope things go well with your family. good luck.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Big Bad Chad

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  • wow4602

    You probably hate him. My brother is a drug addict too and now he is in jail for beating the shit out of someone. I hate him.

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  • pala

    It's always a mistake to name a child after a country or city. My sister Papua New Guinea has similar problems. And don't get me started on Paris Hilton.

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  • cutegalsly

    you dont hate him....thats a kind of feeling that you get for the people that mean something to you....just be patient and he's gonna change for the better....remember no matter what he's still your dear bro...goodluck

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