Is it normal that i hate my boyfriend when am angry at him?

i have been in a relationship for the last 3 and half years...it was all going perfectly normal...but then usually these days whenever i get into an argument with him i just hate him like crazy...i get really mad at him...am not happy being with him...i have been spending the last few days actually wondering if i love him or not and honestly i dont know for all i know i dont feel the same way for him so i decided to break up with him but for some strange unknown reasons i am not even able to that its like i cant live with him neither can i live without him...he just doesnt understand me whatever i do for him is not at all appreciated i dont love him anymore but also i cant break up with him..please help me..

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  • christine28

    I know how you feel, especially when he doesn't appreciate a thing you do for him!
    I also get really mad and wonder why I'm still with my partner. I think maybe you need a break away from him to give yourself time to sort your head out. If you still feel the same then you need to do the best thing and split up, good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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  • blndgrl18

    I think maybe you guys have just been together so long that its become comfortable to be angry with him. You fight with your family like crazy and swear you hate them, but you really do love them. The same goes for you and your boyfriend. At the beginning of relationship, it's hard to get mad at that other person, even if they do make you mad. It's just now, he's basically become family, and its easy to get fed up and annoyed with him.

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    • Fadina

      I agreee with blndgrl18

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