Is it normal that i hate my boyfriend so much?

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I hate my boyfriend with a passion. I am at the point of no return. I am trying to leave him, but I have kids with him, and been depending on him for many years financially. I am a stay at home mom. I am extremely unhappy because he is the such a jerk! He never defends me when his stupid family do things to piss me off. He always flirts with my friends and sisters. So I would always get paranoid and think he's cheating on me. I feel like a trapped bird. I need to get out of here!!! I am only staying because of my children. I don't know what I should do. My kids loves him so much.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    How are you helping your children by
    a) allowing your boyfriend to treat you like that
    b) not establishing financial independence
    c) teaching them it's okay for these things to happen
    ?
    He can stay apart of their lives without you being miserable.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    The kids are the real victims here. If you hate him why did you have multiple kid(s) with him then?

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    Get out and give your kids a chance!

    They will grow up to think that they should be treated by their husbands as you are. or they will treat their wives as he does.

    You will be fine as long as you don't start introducing multiple bfs to them, which fux up their minds completely!

    This relationship is not good for any of you so get out while you are young and have some energy left!

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  • Ono
    11 years ago

    Whatever you do please don't allow your kids to become the victims of this by being drawn into the conflict.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Get a job, and get you and your children the hell out of there! Everybody deserves somebody to treat them right!

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  • wolax
    11 years ago

    life is not that easy that if you don't like it just leave it. it's not a easy choice. also when you have children you are responsible of your family.
    try to teach your bf and help him to change his behavior. it's not impossible. people can change. ;)
    wish you have a happy family

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  • Omgeeipooped
    11 years ago

    Sounds like you should go on Jeremy Kyle! LOL

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Leave him and the kids because if you don't you will never be free of him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I'm sorry things have not worked out for the best for you and your family.

    You sound like you are done, so now all you need is a plan to get out. Now is the time to call in any favours from family and friends.

    Always let him be a father to the children, unless he's abusing them. And try to avoid tarnishing their image of their father--even if he is a dick. It is better for their mental health that they are kept out of the fighting and negativity that's going on between you and their dad.

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