Is it normal that i hate my boyfriend having friends who are girls?

He shared a car ride with girls. He's obviously cheating. It's the only explanation that makes any sense, right? Good thing you're on this now, or pretty soon he'd be on a plane with other women, at work with other women, or even on the subway with WOMEN in close proximity. He might even look at them.

Don't let these people tell you that you're being overprotective and weird. You're being far more juvenile than those words describe.

You need to trust your instincts. A woman's intuition is never wrong.

I think every girl, in the back of her mind, gets a little jealous when her man hangs with other girls. I know that it's even worse when you have been cheated on before, but you really can't tell your man that he is not allowed to have friends who are girls. Guys will not put up with that, and you would really have no right telling him that. A couple things you should consider are, was he friends with these girls before you came along? Do you know these girls? And is there a sexual history between him and these girls? If he was friends with them first, and there is no sexual history, then everything is probably fine. If you don't know them, maybe try to see if all of you could get together and hang out. I know it would be uncomfortable for you, but it's a good way to get to know the situation, and to let the girls know hes taken and his relationship with them can be friends only.

your jealousy and controlling behavior is going to destroy your relationship. there is nothing more unattractive to a man than jealous insecurity. you aren't permitted to hold your current boyfriend accountable for what past boyfriends did. listen carefully, your jealousy will drive him into the arms of another, more secure girl who is alot more fun than you. your negativity and control will make him want to flee, even if he loves you. you're doing the number one thing all men HATE. you need to show him that you're secure enough in yourself to handle him having friends who are girls. the best way to do that is to make friends with them yourself. if for no other reason, so you can keep an eye on them (the girls, not your bf)

It should be perfectly fine for him to chill with other girls, as long as he hasn't hurt the trust, I don't see the problem. Try to calm down. Maybe explain to him what you have been through and why you worry. Never jump to conclusions.

I can relate to you. Ever since my 1st boyfriend cheated on me, I've never been the same again. You know this, guys, regardless of their social or moral stature, are biologically different from us. We will never understand their codes, but one thing is for sure, the cardinal rule - they all think with their DICKS before anything.

So I would recommend to you, weigh your options. How much does this guy really mean to you logically? is he worth losing sleep and nerve over? is he worth tickling your jealousy sensations? if yes, then never look back and go for the ride, but if no then you and I both know you will live to hold hands with another man.

Put him to the test. Let him ride around with these women and follow him. If he does anything you can break it off and if not then you'll be able to put your mind at ease.

Until then you'll never really know for sure unless you want to be your faith in man's nature and assume he'll do the virtuous thing.

I think you worry too much. Males and females can be friends without it being romantic, sexual or anything of that sort. These girls are just his friends. Sure you may have had some bad experiences in the past, but the past is the past.

You need to not worry about it and not think about it, he's allowed to have friends who are girls. The less you trust him the more problems it's gonna cause and will not end in a good result.

Valkeer is going to have you lose that man. Baby girl I'm going to say what you may not like to hear. Guys keep cheating on you because you keep going out with cheaters. But by what you are saying about your behavior they may be cheating because you are pushing them to it. If you keep accusing your man and putting ultimatums on him, he will cheat or just break up with you. You either have to talk to someone or be alone for a while to get your head on right.