Is it normal that i hate my boyfriend but love his family.

I've been seeing this guy for a month and because of our long distance relationship we have a lot of sleepovers at one another's house. I've spent a few weekends with him and his parents and brothers. I've come to realize that I really don't like him but I love his family. I can hang out with them without him and be perfectly content. Is it normal?

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59% Normal
Based on 74 votes (44 yes)
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  • jensapa

    U shouldn't really be with him if u don't like him. And I've stayed friends with ex's an there family's before.

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  • chezycheze

    Some families can be really cool. Or, they really care about this dude so think they should be as accepting as possible to the new gf. Sometimes its even both.

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  • TyLee

    Haha this happened to me too I couldn't stand my bf but his family was great lol eventually I had to break up with him though

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  • aussiewolf

    well that is not really fair on him. how you feel if he was just using you to hang out with your family and specifically your sisters? i dont think you would like it.....

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  • BirdyMojo

    I had the same thing... -.- It sucked because I REALLY wanted to like/love him but I couldn't... but his family was rockin'... just break up with him though, thats what I ended up doing... wasted 7 months with that douchebag.

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  • amaterasu

    I met many people that stayed friends with their exes families... I think it is a very selfish thing to do...

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  • BoredGuy

    I bet they just be patient with your lame ass around the house cause of your bf.

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