Is it normal that i hate my best friend because she lies & ignores me?

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I'm starting to really hate my best friend. She is judgemental, bitchy, slutty, and just plain RUDE! She ignores my calls and texts, she only gives me the time of day when she's bored,everybody else is busy and I'm the only one who she can talk to. I'm like her last resort in a way. She acts like she has the best life and everybody likes her, and she thinks she's the best person that will ever live. She tells me all these stories about how she almost had sex with a guy at this party she went to a while ago, and how she drinks beer and stuff while I'm thinking "since when was it cool to be a slut?"
A few weeks ago, she invited me to the beach with some of her other 'friends'; at the last minute she cancelled, so while I stay alone -yet again- on a saturday night, she ditched me and told everyone else to go to a movie premier in a theater nearby and she didn't even call me. I found out when she put the pictures up on Facebook.
Today, She did the same thing yet another time. She invited me to her birthday dinner at a restaurant and I told her that I was gonna REALLY try to make it, because her birthday is in a couple of days. She said She was gonna call me to tell me the details like when and where. I was sitting at home when I realized it was getting late and still no texts. She told me, she was gonna go late-ish. I -like a stupid person- sat at home waiting and waiting, then about half and hour ago I found out that this supposed "FRIEND" went without me, invited more people, and invited MY other friends! The other people there knew that I was going but I guess she didn't want the likes of me there, and "accidently" forgot to tell me when and where. Hmmm? OH!! and other than that she Lies to me and went early, so basically instead of going to a birthday "dinner" they went and had a birthday "lunch". Wanna hear the best part about it?
I FOUND OUT OVER FACEBOOK!!! What the hell, how can you invite me and not tell me anything and simply go without me!! Its okay if she didn't remember but I'm her best friend for god-sakes (or at least I think I am...)but seriously twice... that's getting suspicious. Watch me not invite this LIAR to my Birthday party to show her how it feels like to be ignored and shunned.
Glad I got that out of my system, forgot what I was gonna ask. -_-
....anyways is it normal to secretly hate your best friend? Because right now, its killing me I just want to get her out of my life but shes my best friend. Its really sad to see her go because I've been through 2 friendships and both of them went down the drain and my first real friendship lasted 10 years and we're still friends, its just that she moved away and we don't talk much ... but that's beside the point. Is this Normal?

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    Some best friend..

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  • Gabby:)
    12 years ago

    A slightly similar thing happened to me with my friend. She started getting really mad at me for things that didn't matter, like she was looking for an excuse to be annoyed with me.

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  • Hayleyjxx
    12 years ago

    She's not a friend! Friends don't do that! To be perfectly honest it's bloody hard to find a genuine true friend but you will! She's definitely not it! Just casually part ways while you still have your life! There's no reason you can't still be mates and see eachother every so often but don't revolve your life around her or you'll end up lonely and depressed

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  • Lion14
    12 years ago

    just saying she's not ur friend
    u shud realize tht (-_-;;;)

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  • LynDragon
    11 years ago

    She's probably doing that because she moved and she wanted to start over. Honestly if I were you I would ask her why she's acting like that. If she was really your friend she wouldn't be leaving you behind. And if you have a party, throw a HUGE one and invite ALL her friends because she kind of deserves it. Lol.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Drop all contact with this bitch. She only lets negativity and anger into you and it isn't good for you at all. You don't seem to have any ties with her other than she used to be a decent friend. You don't need this, it's only stressing you out and pissing you off. You deserve better than this treatment.

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  • Pixienerd
    12 years ago

    No-it is not normal to secretly hate your best friend-BECAUSE IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! She has no right to treat you like that. It has NEVER been cool to act like a slut. I had a friend who did the same beach party thing! I "accidently forgot to invite her to my sleepover"

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  • Review
    12 years ago

    That's not a friend that's an enemy. Start treating her as such and crush her.

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  • spottinit8
    12 years ago

    It really sounds like she's a complete user and doesn't take you seriously as a friend.

    I used to have someone like this in my life. we were 'bffs' yet she never bothered to be her usual funny self with me. It was as if I was her 'resting' friend and she could just relax and be all meeh with me. I ended my friendship with her and now I'm much happier. These people tend to suck the life out of you -- you should stay away from her.

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  • people123
    12 years ago

    Ditch herr.

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  • CreepyCrisp
    12 years ago

    I know how you feel. I had/have a similar problem, and the truth is that she isn't your friend anymore. But it's hard to move on cause you think of how special your friendship was and how she just neglected it and suddenly put you on the back burner. It sucks and you will always be pissed at her for doing what she did but it's not really anyone's fault, people simply grow apart over time and are constantly changing into different people, and sometimes they don't change for the better. Just try to focus your attention on creating a better friendship with somebody else, it helped me :)

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