Is it normal that i hate my best friend.

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I'm sure most of you don't want to hear this but I really need some help here. I really truly hate my best friend. There is nothing nice about her besides her artistic qualitys. She like's to flaunt everything she has and make her friends feel like crap. She abuses her boyfriend, thinks that the world revolves around her, possibly has Bi-polar disorder or Schitzophrenia. I can't deal with her. She has lied to me so many times. I really don't know what to do I don't want to keep being her friend. And I would "dump" her if not for her abusives tendancies. I'm afraid she would attempt to hurt me. Though putting her up against me gives the notion her bark is worse than her bite but I still worry constantly. I feel so bad for her boyfriend. I am a bit jealous of her, everytime she breaks up with a guy another one takes the spot within days. I honestly think she doesn't deserve to be happy and I feel so bad for saying that but it's true. And the other sad thing is I have tried to leave her before, and she goes suicidal. I think leaving the country with my family is the only way I would get rid of her. Some advice please, her abuse and arrogance has gone on for far to long. Today because of a fight with her boyfriend she brought me along into it because he pointed something out in her artwork. It wasn't even that big a deal , and then she blows the whole thing out of proportion saying "If it was critisism from my mom or my brother sure. But you guys aren't even half as good as me." That really hurt, I am an above average artist that just need's help on details and anatomy and she blows it up in my face. She lure's people in with her "nice" personality and good looks and then she shows her true colors. Nobody should ever have a bestfriend like this. Well I'm done ranting. Sorry, thanks for hearing me out though.

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    That type of 'suicidal' behavior because you don't want to be a part of her life anymore is attention seeking. If she was truly suicidal, she would have made a real attempt already (I know from past experience). If you are ready to move on, you have every right to. Just stick to it & follow through. Ignore her craziness when you try to leave and just cut her out of your life. Going back to her is just letting her know that if she acts that way, she can get you to do what she wants.

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  • Qazzz
    8 years ago

    Ask her if she is depressed if she says she tell her to talk about it with her mom. She probably is seeking some attention. The thing is you have got to cut her out of ur life slowly maybe stop hanging out with her so much idk, just don't ignore her but don't be all yeah bffs!

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  • SharpLikeCheddar
    13 years ago

    I didn't read the whole story, but I hate my best friend too.

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  • babaG
    13 years ago

    Probably has depression. I recomend a kick to reality and some meds.

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  • xXxCraigIeroxXx
    13 years ago

    I had a friend like that... We had to take seperate paths and from there everything got so much better :) It happens, but from this experience you can formulate what you will and will not accept in a friendship later on in life. Just start becoming less and less available and she'll find other entetainment and you'll be off the hook

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    Push her in front of a bus.

    Day saved, Im going on break.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You already know what you have to do. If you're afraid that she'll commit suicide then call the cops and let them know what the risk is. If she's not serious she'll look like a fool and if she is then you did everything you could.

    Ultimately though her life is in her own hands. You can't let yourself be deceived into thinking any of it is your responsibility.

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