Is it normal that i hate making friends?

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I absolutely hate making friends but I'm really friendly and nice naturally when I meet new people. However when they start liking me, I find them pathetic and different from me and I start shunning away from them.

This happens very often and once they start asking me out or something i will usually decline, and I will find ways to make them dislike me; for example I would say nasty or sarcastic things that would lower their self-esteem. However despite how I'm like, no one has ever openly insulted or showed displeasure towards me, and no one have ever talked behind my back. I'm really unnaturally likable and almost every guys would crush or take a liking on me, even lesbians!!

So that's really why I avoid making friends, most people find that I am a unique and interesting person but I find myself boring. And is it normal??

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  • bigbob101
    12 years ago

    shit i wish i could make a friend

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  • moreoftheworst
    12 years ago

    This is me in a nutshell. It's so creepy because I honestly felt like I could have written what you just wrote. Personal anecdote: one time there was this guy that everyone always thought was so cool, and I liked the idea of how well liked he was, so I tried and made him like me by always being funny and nice, but then once he started flirting with me and being all mushy he disgusted me, I couldn't stand him anymore. i was only 14 at the time, and I was immature, however, I still do the whole shunning out thing when I feel people are getting too close. Sometimes I cannot believe some people out there can be completely honest and open with someone other than themselves; I certainly can't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    but i thought ..*trembling lip

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  • Internecine
    12 years ago

    You're very confused about things that most people find simple.

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    guise im so pawpulor but i hate it!!!! lesbians 2 lol

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  • wigsplitz
    12 years ago

    I understand. I am extremely put off if a person acts the slightest bit needy or clingy. I hate social neediness, it just seems so weak and pathetic to me.

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  • carterjm4
    12 years ago

    Dude i completely understand. I used to be just like this. At one point in life i was really popular because people found my honesty and bluntness funny when I was really just straight speaking the truth. I can't stand when people laugh at things you say not only for a laugh, but mostly because you really mean what you say. People used to invite to their formal parties with their limos and their dresses, and they knew I hated that crap. Now that I am older I no longer put up with their crap. i say things to make them think and leave me alone. Sometimes I'm lonely, but the loneliness only lasts a day or two at most.

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