Is it normal that i hate it when my boyfriend looks at porn?

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I hate it so much when my boyfriend looks at porn. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough or something. I feel like my breast are too small and don't please him well enough or he just needs more then just me. He says oh it's normal. Well I don't care if it's normal I really don't like it. Do any other girls hate when their boyfriend watches or looks at porn?

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Honey, all men watch porn unless they are 100% asexual (or dead).
    Don't take it personally a man could be married to a porn star and still watch other pron. It means nothing bad about you. I understand that you don't like it so ask him not to do it while youre around or at least not leave evidence around for you to find.
    Me, I actually like my man watching porn cause if he didn't have an outlet hed have sexed me to death by now. Chica needs a break now and then!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    You need to let go of your insecurities. It's normal for people to look at porn. Try watching it with him.

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  • honeybeee
    11 years ago

    I dumped my ex of 2 years coz he wouldn't stop watching so I understand how it hurts and people are close minded and think it's normal ... so annoying

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  • sograceful
    11 years ago

    I think this might reflect how much self confidence you have (or lack).

    Personally, boyfriends watching porn doesn't bother me. I know that I'm not available nor willing to have sex 24/7, and if I'm not, how can I blame him for fulfilling his own needs?

    And besides, watching porn does not mean those ladies are better than you or that he wishes he was with them instead of you. They're there as more of an object of sexual stimulation.

    And you, my friend, are hopefully much more than that to him.

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    Not normal. my bf watches porn...and I do too. You need to have more confidence...maybe watch some too so you can see that even though you're watching it, it has nothing to do with your feelings for your bf.

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    Give the guy a break, it's just porn...jeez.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    It is normal to have your own opinion, but the amount of dislike i'm sensing is a little overboard. I have watched porn WITH most of my girlfriends, and it is quite an interesting experience!

    Sex is everywhere, movies, advertising, tv, radio, internet, it's not something you will get away from!

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    Nothing new about it. it depends on a girl's self esteem, i think cause i had girl who would flip shit like the comment above -obviously there are dark woods of issues here that i better leave alone. And there were girls that understood that there's nothing wrong with it. Actually I dated a girl for a while who used to watch porn as well, and soon i discovered that many other girls watch it too.

    it's really NOT normal to hate it that much, really.

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  • blondbond69
    11 years ago

    It created terrible issues within me i could never resolve with him or even myself. Hate HIM now too.despite our counseling and hard work and efforts it just hurt and went too deep to pull the knife out, so to speak. Fuck porn and the hoes in it

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  • blondbond69
    11 years ago

    FUXKING HATE IT. I dumped him cuz he wouldn't stop

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