Is it normal that i hate everything since i got pregnant?

Okay, so I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant and if feels like I literally hate everything and everyone! I was quite annoyed by people before I was pregnant but now I just think they are all idiots! It has gotten to the point where I wish I was crazy enough to just go on a rampage!
At 5 weeks pregnant, I got pulled over by an officer for blowing a stop sign that is clearly covered by trees to where you cannot see it at night and barely during the day. Not to mention I was having night time morning sickness. Well, I was taught don't argue with the officer as you will have your day in court. Well, this idiot proceeds to tell me that there is no way I could be having morning sickness at night? Really, since when the f*ck did you become a doctor?
Next, I work with a bunch of idiots! And one certain coworker who has a new baby at home so you would think she would sympathize with me keeps telling everyone that I'm getting special privileges! Really? Well, let's see? I work as a full time massage therapist at a national massage chain that already likes to overbook every therapist. Also, I come in on my days off to train people and I have to come up with classes when they want me to. I have to take contraindication questions at 9pm at night sometimes later. I also have taken on additional work like chair massage events in addition to my regular schedule. And this chick only works 3 days a week/5 hour shifts equaling 15 hours a week. I work 4 days a week totaling 30 hours and that is just the massaging. That does not include the training I have to do or the extra work I pick up!
I wanted to get a massage and a facial. So, for the employees to be guaranteed a massage you have to come in at 8am. However, if there is a last minute opening or you can book an open spot unless a client calls, then you can take that spot. So, I was able to get in her for a 90 minute pre-natal massage and the next week a facial. And I gave her a better tip than she would ever get from a regular client! Yeah, guess who I overheard in the break room telling everyone that I'm getting "Special Privileges." Um, it's not my fault that you obviously don't pay attention to rules.
Next, a girl who was suppose to be my friend from work and I found out that she is more of an enemy. I caught her in the break room saying a lot of untrue things about me that are very damaging. Now, I'm suppose to train her in hot stone massage and I don't want to be around this girl. And everything she said except about my moodiness was not even true, It was all made up!
Lastly, my less than sympathetic husband. He constantly throws it in my face about the ticket, he told me that I need to stop complaining about everything, constantly wants sex even though I have a bladder infection that prevents me from having it, and that it just must be my hormones! Also, we used to be able to talk about things like what is happening at work. Yeah, not anymore! Oh, I'm just being b*tchy and hormonal!
A) How could I possibly want sex with someone who keeps throwing a ticket in my face when he has gotten so many tickets I lost count. This is the first one I've had in years!
B)I have an infection that could get worse by having sex. C) Last time we had sex it was not pleasant at all and it hurt!
D) He does absolutely nothing to get me in the mood. He thinks that just because he rubs my back that it means he should get a blowjob. Really? You want a BJ, then how about you actually have the house somewhat clean when I get home instead of throwing your clothes all over our dining room for me to pick up. Or how about you actually do the dishes? And secondly if you want sex grabbing my crotch for like 2 seconds is not going to put me in the mood!!!! And it was most likely his dirty hands that caused my infection in the first place because he washes them only at the end of the day when he takes his shower! I'm grateful that he does find me attractive while I'm pregnant but I seriously do not want to be touched right now!
E) And finally I need someone to vent to because the stuff I'm putting up with at work is stressful! And he just tells me I need to stop complaining.
It feels like everyone is out to get me right now! I just hate everyone and everything since I got pregnant! How am I suppose to be happy with all this going on? And I haven't even begun to list everything else!

I'm really being hormonal! 10
People are just as*holes! 0
My husband is just plain rude and selfish! 2
No, this is legitimate complaints! 4
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Darkoil

    Imagining killing people who piss me off helps, usually just a 2 second fantasy where I garrotte them or stab them in the neck multiple times with a pencil.

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  • nobody13

    I'm not woman, so I unfortunately don't have any firsthand knowledge of what it's like to be hormonal or anything, but even from a male's perspective that seems like a lot of bullshit you're having to put up with. Your feelings would be legitimate even if you weren't pregnant - I know that I would be annoyed if I were in your position.

    P.S. your husband REALLY needs to wash his hands if you're gonna have a baby around, what with babies having weak immune systems and all. I'd deny him sex if he didn't do that as well.

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  • Freedom_

    When i was prego, I was mostly content (I was only attending community college) but I felt like it was my duty to weed out the lamos. I hated friends and family who did drugs I didn't approve of, or excessive drug use (anyone who was all about the party life). I hated people who tried to smoke weed or cigs too close to me. I hated my dad for hating me for getting pregnant. I hated people at the grocery store who drove too close to me as I walked into the store and then gave me funny looks inside the store. I hated the dog I rescued because he stunk and seemed to have some sort of skin problem that caused this ( I feel terrible now about giving him away on Craigslist to people who probably tortured him). I hated people who drove too fast or didn't drive properly. I hated my mom's dog for continuing to shit in the house despite being grown af. I hated the fact that my sister's dog always laid in my bed when I went to class and got hair everywhere, Although i fucking loved that dog to death so i let him pass occasionally.

    I hated a lot of things and I voiced my opinion more than ever, so I'd say it's normal to hate while pregnant. I see it as part of the nesting process. Your body knows what is best for your baby. Don't worry about being perceived as a bitch, don't risk your job but by all means speak your mind. Find at least one person you can vent to, maybe your mum? A cool aunt? Your dad?

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    Goodness, that was quite the rant! I think your concerns and feelings are legitimate. I can understand about hormones making you hate everything; the last time I PMSed I was ready to destroy everything I saw. Pregnancy hormones are probably far worse.

    It's possible that your hormones are making you react more strongly than you normally would to these situations, so try not to remind people of that (and remind yourself of it too). I don't know how to tell you to deal with the sexual problems with your husband, I'm not experienced enough in that area. But good luck and I hope you start to feel better.

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    • angrymama

      Thank you. I thought I had legitimate complaints but everyone I know is telling me that it is only because of hormones. The biggest thing is my friend stabbing in the back. I'm so hurt by it and wonder how I can move on from it. I just pretend like there is nothing wrong between us.

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      • FEMALEVOMITBLOWJOB

        After the woman has kids she's unattractive, fat, her body spills out and sags like spaghetti over a bowls rim. The woman needs to focus on working out at this point to lose the excess if she wants sex from her husband instead of just giving blowjobs.

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        • angrymama

          Well, of course I'm not to that point yet. And you really should not talk about yourself that way. And my husband loves my curves and is actually turned on by my pregnancy. Apparently you did not read the beginning of the post where it says 9 weeks only which means I'm not even showing yet. And it is nice to know that you have the brain capacity of a trogladite!

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          • FEMALEVOMITBLOWJOB

            I think the reason why your giving blowjob instead of getting fucked is cause if you were fat to begin with and then got pregnant maybe perhaps your too fat for your man to now find you attractive?

            You do know there is such a thing as too fat right? Maybe your hubby finds you obscenely obese which is why your sucking his dick instead of getting fuck, maybe?

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            • Wow, sorry you actually don't get laid. And seriously, you need to stop taking about yourself.

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  • likeseriouslythough

    It actually is.

    In many different cultures and varied folklore of areas around the world, there are beliefs regarding what it is and why it happens, but of course there are myths as well as facts!

    In some cases, wives have even been subject to hating their own husbands during the stages of pregnancy!

    It is just the fact that women in pregnancy undergo a large amount of hormone level fluctuations (ups and downs), in a very small time frame, which is very frustrating and mentally tiring for them.. so God bless them all for that power.

    Just think of it this way. As a pregnant woman, not only do you consume your emotions of sympathy and empathy fluctuations (which are much higher than in males), but also your babies.
    Same thing with food consumption, oxygen intake, energy requirements, blood flow, etc.
    Everything is doubled.

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