Is it normal that i hate everything since i got pregnant?
Okay, so I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant and if feels like I literally hate everything and everyone! I was quite annoyed by people before I was pregnant but now I just think they are all idiots! It has gotten to the point where I wish I was crazy enough to just go on a rampage!
At 5 weeks pregnant, I got pulled over by an officer for blowing a stop sign that is clearly covered by trees to where you cannot see it at night and barely during the day. Not to mention I was having night time morning sickness. Well, I was taught don't argue with the officer as you will have your day in court. Well, this idiot proceeds to tell me that there is no way I could be having morning sickness at night? Really, since when the f*ck did you become a doctor?
Next, I work with a bunch of idiots! And one certain coworker who has a new baby at home so you would think she would sympathize with me keeps telling everyone that I'm getting special privileges! Really? Well, let's see? I work as a full time massage therapist at a national massage chain that already likes to overbook every therapist. Also, I come in on my days off to train people and I have to come up with classes when they want me to. I have to take contraindication questions at 9pm at night sometimes later. I also have taken on additional work like chair massage events in addition to my regular schedule. And this chick only works 3 days a week/5 hour shifts equaling 15 hours a week. I work 4 days a week totaling 30 hours and that is just the massaging. That does not include the training I have to do or the extra work I pick up!
I wanted to get a massage and a facial. So, for the employees to be guaranteed a massage you have to come in at 8am. However, if there is a last minute opening or you can book an open spot unless a client calls, then you can take that spot. So, I was able to get in her for a 90 minute pre-natal massage and the next week a facial. And I gave her a better tip than she would ever get from a regular client! Yeah, guess who I overheard in the break room telling everyone that I'm getting "Special Privileges." Um, it's not my fault that you obviously don't pay attention to rules.
Next, a girl who was suppose to be my friend from work and I found out that she is more of an enemy. I caught her in the break room saying a lot of untrue things about me that are very damaging. Now, I'm suppose to train her in hot stone massage and I don't want to be around this girl. And everything she said except about my moodiness was not even true, It was all made up!
Lastly, my less than sympathetic husband. He constantly throws it in my face about the ticket, he told me that I need to stop complaining about everything, constantly wants sex even though I have a bladder infection that prevents me from having it, and that it just must be my hormones! Also, we used to be able to talk about things like what is happening at work. Yeah, not anymore! Oh, I'm just being b*tchy and hormonal!
A) How could I possibly want sex with someone who keeps throwing a ticket in my face when he has gotten so many tickets I lost count. This is the first one I've had in years!
B)I have an infection that could get worse by having sex. C) Last time we had sex it was not pleasant at all and it hurt!
D) He does absolutely nothing to get me in the mood. He thinks that just because he rubs my back that it means he should get a blowjob. Really? You want a BJ, then how about you actually have the house somewhat clean when I get home instead of throwing your clothes all over our dining room for me to pick up. Or how about you actually do the dishes? And secondly if you want sex grabbing my crotch for like 2 seconds is not going to put me in the mood!!!! And it was most likely his dirty hands that caused my infection in the first place because he washes them only at the end of the day when he takes his shower! I'm grateful that he does find me attractive while I'm pregnant but I seriously do not want to be touched right now!
E) And finally I need someone to vent to because the stuff I'm putting up with at work is stressful! And he just tells me I need to stop complaining.
It feels like everyone is out to get me right now! I just hate everyone and everything since I got pregnant! How am I suppose to be happy with all this going on? And I haven't even begun to list everything else!
I'm really being hormonal! | 10 | |
People are just as*holes! | 0 | |
My husband is just plain rude and selfish! | 2 | |
No, this is legitimate complaints! | 4 |