Is it normal that i hate everything about me and my life?

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I'm a guy, 18... I hate my self, I've been really self concious since I was 11 I hate the way I look, for anyone that wants to know, I'm short 1m 55cm, bit chubby 11 stone, short dark blond hair, its close to brown, Redish skin, acne since I was 13, blue and green eyes (heterochromia), grey/silver and black glasses. In my life... I've only had one girlfriend and she wasn't even really a girlfriend more, really really close friend. I've never kissed anyone outside my family & I'm a virgin.
People often call me cute but I don't think they mean it. Nothing I do in life ever seems to be good enough for anyone... I underachieve, I can't focus on one thing, for example it's taken me an hour to get to this point. I've been thinking about ending it all... Is... Is this normal?

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Based on 44 votes (27 yes)
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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Hey, quit that hate nonsense.
    Your still young, its perfectly fine to be a virgin at your age. Second, who cares about your height, you can't help it and I'm sure its fine anyways. Sense when has being short stopped anyone from being attractive? And your eyes sound pretty damn awesome to me. Everyone has flaws man, it makes the world go around. There are girls wanting you, just need to clear your eyes from all the negativity. Be happy withheld yourself, and girls will love to be around you, they will feel the positive vibes radiating from you. Positive. Be patient, be positive, be happy, and you will win.
    Good luck!

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    • Energy
      12 years ago

      Agreed!

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    • nobleserpent
      12 years ago

      *you're

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      • karmasAbich
        12 years ago

        Oh thanks for showing your smarts.

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        • nobleserpent
          12 years ago

          You're welcome

          bitch

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          • nobleserpent
            12 years ago

            **Bitch

            ^That's how it should be spelled.

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          • Energy
            12 years ago

            Shut up bitch.

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  • ITgirl232
    12 years ago

    I feel like this all the time. I get bullied. Mayb thats the reason?

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  • Cricklewood
    12 years ago

    It's normal for most teenagers but it's not healthy. Love yourself instead!

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    What they said!!!! ^^^ I know someone with one blue eye and one green eye and I know it's extremely rare! You were one of the lucky ones! I'm a chick and I don't go for looks, personality always wins me over! Your probably not as bad as you think you are and your only 18! I know a 30 year old virgin and it's fine to not have had sex. Your probably really nice and sweet. You just have to stop hating on yourself and be more positive and girls will like you!!

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