Is it normal that i hate dancing on guys at parties?

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I hate grinding. I don't see the point of my rubbing by butt on some random guys crotch that I don't know. Even if I know I him, I still don't like it. I think it's the whole proximity thing with me, but that's another story. Anyway, I don't understand why it's fun. I mean I know why guys enjoy it but I don't understand why girls enjoy it. Can someone give me a reason?

Oh and is this normal?

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Based on 92 votes (74 yes)
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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Girls like to do it, in the same way a girl likes to know she can give her man a boner. It's sort of a power trip like, self assurance that your sexy enough to get the opposite sex going. I atually had a dream about that last night, and this totally reminded me :O I'm going to tell my bf about it and see if I can get him horny LOLOLOLOL

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    • sunshinemoonlight
      7 years ago

      haha

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Is it normal to not want to sexually please a man that I do not know?

    Is it normal to have standards and self-respect?

    Is it normal to not want to be some random stranger's source of sexual pleasure and objectify myself in said manner?

    No, no and no but I will vote yes anyway because I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU AND WISH I HAD FEMALE FRIENDS LIKE YOU IRL.

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    • safekindofhigh
      12 years ago

      thank you!!! it's good to know that I'm not alone.

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  • nowhereboy
    12 years ago

    You have gave me faith that their are some decent girls left out their. I hate it whens girls demoralize themselves like this. Im not sexist but im sorry ladies, it doesnt look empowering or anything from a mans point of view. You just look like cheap slags.

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    It's normal. Personally, I don't even consider it as dancing.

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    • theYaoilover
      12 years ago

      me neither. i consider it foreplay

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    It's sexy, and makes horny. What isn't there to get?

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  • leodynasty
    4 years ago

    Women don't feel bad if you like it or you don't. It's your body your choice.. have fun if that means dancing by yourself or dancing with another.. that's what a party is all about

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  • kimi
    11 years ago

    Grinding gives me an orgasm

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  • queenoftheworld
    12 years ago

    I'm a girl, and I enjoy it unless it's a complete stranger. For some reason I just feel uncomfortable then.

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  • UnwrittenPoet94
    12 years ago

    Thats totally normal! I don't like it either. I just don't see the point of grinding on somebody you don't even know. You have no idea where they've been or what they've been doing...I totally agree with you. I've got way most self respect than that, and thankfully so do you.

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  • simple.chicc
    12 years ago

    i've never been to parties with grinding and all that fun stuff, but i would do it for some reason. i would grind on a random guy, i think it's hot. lol.

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  • waterbaby
    12 years ago

    I COMPLETELY agree with you, I don't like it either... I wish people would dance how they did 20 years ago.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Some girls like it, some don't. It's 100% normal.

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    It's exciting!

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