Is it normal that i hate being a female?

Well girls orgasms are supposed to be many times better than guys

I completely understand where you're coming from. I hate being a girl as well, primarily because no one expects me to make anything of my life. I grew up in a society that belittles women anyway, I was always taught that men are more priveleged than women, but that it doesn't matter because women can have children and that's all that's important, so I grew up resenting my lot in life. I'll hate being female right along with you.

It's more difficult for men in other ways. Actually the suckiness of each gender is pretty well balanced. Just a 'grass is greener' complex.

Definitely normal. We have to deal with periods, pregnancies, children, drama and all that :(
Being a girl sucks sometimes.

I mean how the hell can we compare orgasms, I dunno if some of mine were any stronger it'd be dangerous , pop a blood veses,brain sell or somem. Chicks are a lot more expressive/emotional, I've always thought that makes it seem more than guys.But hey on the other hand , if they are stronger they deserve it as female problems compensation .
But yeah things must be a real pain sometimes , girls have so many issues physically and so much can go wrong , then there's pregnancies one day on top of it. and then even more issues.
The looks thing , I've always thought that seems like so much fun for girls , they seem to have a ball with it all and they have so much power over us males in that way , I've always thought that's really cool . I love the way a chick can just make me a blubbering mess when no one else can.
I mean I've always been more than happy being male but I have always thought despite a lot of physical issues it's also be heaps of fun being female and it does also come with many benefits.
But hey , guys do have heaps of guy issues too , some of the shit you have to deal with just because your male - whole new thread , not that I'm saying we're hard done as compared and the girl physical things well , not much can match that but there is still shit and lots of it , just in a lot of other ways though.

Wow, ItDuz really can't comment enough on this story.

I don't like that I can't walk anywhere alone at night or in downtown areas, and that hobos and bigger people like to approach me because I am small and easy to physically dominate by someone that is stronger than me (I live in California where it is illegal to carry a concealed weapon). And if, for someone reason, I HAVE to be in that area alone, and I get raped or assaulted, it's like "well derp, you shouldn't have been in that area alone" or "derp, that's what you get for wearing those slutty jeans, that slutty sweater and slutter tennis shoes".

And the slutty thing. I've been with about 10 men before my husband, always protected sex, and I meet men that have been with 20+ girls that consider me a slut. And I'm considered stupid by other women for marrying so young, but when men do it, oh it's sweet how much he loves her.

But other than that, I wouldn't want to be a man. I'm a cute little girl and I play the cute little bookworm part well. People don't get confrontational with me or any of that shit, and my lack of social skills doesn't matter cuz I'm so adorable haha.

It's a SNAFU situation. Situation's normal, but all-f'ed-up. It's a hard world for females.

The greater the struggle, the greater the reward.

:)

Man, the things I would do if I had a vagina...

You have boobs that's enough =P

Not to mention how women get treated by other women. Women usually don't stick up for other women especially in the work place. If your a woman who is on her way to a promotion, other women will back stab and try to make you look bad to others. It's happened so many times with me. I've had more troubles with women in the workplace than with men. If your in a management role, other women will call you a bitch. I have seen it time and time again. I really do believe that a lot of the reasons that women do not get ahead in life is because of other women. Women treat each other so badly mostly do to jealousy & their relationships fall apart with just one misunderstanding. Men on the other hand, reconcile and are bestfriends. I do hate being a woman mostly because of other woman and I don't apologize for that.

both men and women have good and bad things to deal with,but sadly men do rule.Like when they put men in everything, huMAN MANmade and most of all,woMAN. Also men are stronger,faster,and they don't have to shave at being and they do not have to worry about being pregnant.

Yes it is normal, I hate of being a man..

I'm a female and I dont mind at all! I wouldnt mind if I was a man either..its just the fact that this is what I am, and I'm gonna take that and make the best of it.

Yes, we hVe it tough but being a girlnis grrat. Mans life is kinda boring. Us what makes us cool is that we can deal with all of it! We can protect ourselves from getting pregnant or just give t gift of life! I love being a female! And i guess mem DO have it tough! U know how hard it must be for a man to geta girl? We just move our ass show our boobs a lottle dress pretty n get them! They dont have ouur abilities!

Omg! Be happy for who you are...
Yes we women have to go through the monthly cycle, yes we are the ones who go through birth, yes we might need to look after ourselves more than men do, etc...
But that's just the way humanity is.

And no being a woman is not that much harder than being a man... Men have issues too, we all do just in different ways, but it's up to the individual to make the best out of his/her life.

"Make the most out of it because you never know what could happen".

It really sucks to say it (it really does) but I totally agree with you. People say that the grass is greener on the other side but I'm a man and I would NEVER want to be woman. Sorry

Ahh , don't take him to heart Ellyb both sexes do definitely have their drawbacks and there are double standards all over and coming from both , I take it with a grain of salt b/c it ain't gonna change .
Personally I do see where your coming from and I've often thought thing's like that and glad I don't have to go through them - most of us guys would be hopeless at being female.
Gotta agree on the dangly bits, that's one way I do envy girls big time , f'k me they can be a pain . Couldn't imagine being able to move about with nothing in the way or getting squashed , nothing to readjust all day long,or to not have to worry about unexpected pop ups , must be pretty damn good .

Dunno how girls ended up wearing the skirts , they've got nothing there , guys are the ones that should be in skirts , we need em. Thank God for sarongs !

Ah, yes. -Cracks knucles- Now let me tell you the difficulties of being men.
Men, we are expected to be handsome, couragous, funny, protective, smart, etc. All you have to do is look good and be nice.
Double standards? The irony. Women get away with so much more than men do even if the man gets punished for doing the same thing. Women get less jail time for the same crime men do, they get away with sexual harrassment, "even when it's been recorded and is undeniable proof they done it", can laugh and mock a man on national television for getting his penis cut off for doing nothing but asking for a divorce, while if a man done it to a woman, he would be fired, and so much more.
Then there is the part when women say "Men can sleep around, but when women do it, we're sluts" when it's "women" calling other "women" sluts, not the men. So we also get the blame for the things you say to eachother.
Then when you decide to be with an asshole rather than the nice guy, you say all men are assholes because "you" has chosen to be with the asshole and friendzone the nice guy.
Centuries of being degraded? You do realize the average man was also degraded once upon a time? That only male "landowners" got to vote? But since you were never degraded as the women were in the past, you have no right to try play it off like you're effected by it in any way, that's disrespectful to the women that went through hell, then you with a better like try to brush it off like you have had any pain like they did.
The unfair salaries I'm not going in to, it would take about three comment boxes to do. Period pains, so what? Males risk being hit in the private areas far more than women risk period pains. Pregnancy, that's "your" choice, nobody is forcing you to fall pregnant. Labour and delivery, don't fall pregnant. You get thge choice of being a prent or not, while the men don't. Invasive doctor visits? What? So if a doctor checks up on you, it's invasive?

Incase you haven't notice, males have it just as bad.

I think I'd hate being a guy just as much as you claim to hate being a girl!

Men have all this pressure to make it financially, they get so much crap for wanting to do anything in the arts. Getting kicked in the nuts sounds awful, and I can't imagine trying to do anything with all that extra equipment dangling between your legs. And their clothing? Boooooring! There are WAY more things for a woman to wear and do with their clothing to be interesting and unique, or sexy. They can't wear makeup, either, but I suppose that's girly stuff...

Not nearly as many free drinks at bars, other guys being territorial, people more willing to fight them, constantly needing to assert themselves, dealing with facial hair (ugh!), body hair in general, smelling worse, the list goes on.

I personally don't think it's so bad to be female.

Not surprised, i'd hate to be female. It is a mans world after all.