Is it normal that i hate babies/children?

I have noticed more and more lately that I really dont like babies and children, and yeah even teenagers! Im 26 and yeah have been there one time or another but I just cant find really anything appealing about any of it. Hey, I didnt ask to be born so when someone says "well u were all of these at one time" I get utterly annoyed and wanna punch them in their mouth. I cant ever express true feeling to anyone and they dont seem to really understand this hatred of children. Well I mean it could be that ur little brats are annoying and scream and throw fits, that I cant pee in public restrooms without a little freak peeking through the cracks or under the stall! Restuarants are crawling with them, hard to enjoy my out experience when little jr or little jane is spitting up or screaming or running under my table! I mean I dont know why the hell shouldnt I just love these little bundle of joys?! My friends that now have children dont have lives and cant even have an adult conversation anymore! Why would I want this? Why would I give up having a life and going out without making that trip to the babysitters or having a stranger in my home? Why people willingly do this is beyond me! I would never harm a child or baby, maybe a teenager lol, but im not gonna give up freedom for any of that and pregnant woman look strange to me and I dont want to touch there stomach and why would i? I didnt do that when u werent pregnant! Baby crazy people make me sick! Seems like everyones child has freaking ADD now a days too! Im tired of hearing about babies and children and being asked when im gonna have one! I just wanna know how normal my feelings are, and im sure they cant possibly be completely abnormal im sure, but some people out there have strong opinions against me most of the time and think I would harm another person, but thats not the case, I just dont want their misery pushed upon me is all!

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Based on 108 votes (84 yes)
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  • ThatKidTotallyRocks

    I can't stand most kids myself! With their whining, rudeness, and bothering me in the bathroom. I have met a few that are nice, but that quality all depends on how they are raised and the discipline they receive. I've found that since people are becoming worse parents, children are becoming horribly ill-behaved and increasingly hate-able.

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  • PeteAndJane

    I hate them too & anyone who is commenting on heresaying you're wrong for feeling that way most likely have the children you described.

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    • MahBoi24

      Couldn't have said it better myself!

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  • bumblecreek

    i agree with you. kids these days are obnoxious and have no respect for anything. i myself don't want kids either, it's not worth throwing away what could be a great life.

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  • tori

    I have adult children now. It was rough when they were little. BUT, they were well behaved out in public. I made sure of it.

    Once though a couple years back in a restaurant. There was a screaming kid a few tables away from me. Everyone was annoyed. Parents were doing nothing to quiet this kid. After about 10 minutes of this I couldnt take it anymore. I screamed "Quiet!!!!". People ducked. Needless to say, those parents finally took their little darling outside. No one said anything to me. I felt like wonderwoman!!

    It's all how they are raised. But, I do see your point.

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  • Dizzee

    I think I might have a baby phobia. I knew I already didn't care for babies / small children, then my mother puts my nephew on my lap (expecting me to hold him) and I just freak out and tell her to get him away from me. LOL. I'm going to feel bad for my children... if I have any.

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  • MahBoi24

    I mainly hate the breeders. Yeah I can't stand most little kids, but it's the damn breeders that piss me off more than anyone. I'm ready for the human race to die out. But the damn breeders make that impossible!!! I'm hoping for a big-ass earthquake or meteor to take us all out in 2012.

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  • Jackshakey

    I really hate my cousin. Shes 1 an a bit and she just pusses, shits, moans, cries and tries pathetically to say words and attention seek. Some people would call it adorable but i find it so fucking annoying. I actually want to kill myself or her. Its constantly "waaaaa" whenever i go around to my nans. She ruins my stuff too! She snapped my top string and ripped my artwork when i left it there. Its so irritating i actually hate her. I cant say anything though cuz they'd be like "How can you hate a baby you bully" I really just cant take her anymore though

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  • MrGriffin

    I understand you. I hate children too. No words can describe how annoying most of them are (can't speak for all of them, but still).

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  • Wiseman27

    I hate babies and the people who think it's a good use of their bodies to have one. I regret my birth, because I know that means I WAS a baby.

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  • Yakka

    I don't think it is considered normal by society but I agree with you totally! The annoy me like you wouldn't believe.

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  • stay away from them then

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  • flax

    Normal.

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  • alv1592

    Sure little children can be annoying when they're not well behaved, but it's often the parents' fault for not disciplining them. So maybe it's the parents you should be annoyed at. All I can say is, don't ever get pregnant or impregnate someone (you didn't say what gender you are lol)

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  • u mad!

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  • Shackleford96

    It is normal that you do not like children/babies, but to me it sounds like you are maximizing all of the negatives. There are good things about children too. I can not imagine having kids right now in my life and I am pretty awkward around babies or really young children because I have never really been around any very much, but someday I think I would like to have children if I find the right girl. I like to think that I will be a great dad too and have a good loving family.

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  • moomus

    Well let's hope you never have children, you sound like you need anger management or something.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    I never liked kids until I met some really nice intelligent ones in my early 20s and realized they are not all little monsters. Most (other peoples) kids are annoying but there are some kids who are really delightful. Most of them are only good in small doses.
    I have one kid myself and that's enough.

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  • Nokiot9

    I'm the same way. I can't stand little kids most of the time. I bet I was annoying as hell when I was little lol

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  • lol1055

    chicks only want them because they are fat and lazy, to them its a paycheck for fucking you over, its like prostitution. they say you love you, cunts always lie and take you for everything , if they can get you to marry. marriage / child support is just a way to con you out of your money not theirs every cunt is their for the money not love, don't believe the trickery. just do guys,they are honest and don't play mind games with you like cunts do!

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  • Alarid

    It's normal to completely hate children until you have them, because they are fuckwads. But when you have one, you have a paradigm shift because "fuck it, it's mine".

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  • nowimsureimsane

    Theres a song about this kinda thing...ah yes Devourment (baby killer) great song btw just dont read the lyrics!

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  • Jackshakey

    That was meant to be pisses not pusses. Fucking autocorrect

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  • SEWnanist23

    I'm actually okay with the well behaved ones it's the bratty that gives me throbbing anger to give them a real hard stinging spanking, that would make me normal in that repect but then there's the law that demands you spoil the brat as well.

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  • ratsrgood123

    I am a child, and I completely aggree with you. I hate it when (especially at wendys) throw those little pieces of crap they call toys right into your food! then the littl dicksstick thier grubby little fingers in your fries, sonetimes taking the whole box. I do not have a problem with other teens my age. Although i once knew a 12 year old who knew his cos1 functions.

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  • slxslippy

    completely normal. little bastards.

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  • joybird

    The best way to avoid them is to go to a restaurant or club that serves alcohol coz usually children have to be out of there by a certain time - 9pm.

    I understand where you're coming from. I have a teenager but all my family know I find babies extremely boring coz I can't work out what on earth they are crying for. I do love them from 2-6 yo until they get cheeky. It is the sheer responsibility of making decisions for another person 24/7 and second guessing yourself all the time if you did the right thing. said the right thing, ....

    If you don't feel a real NEED for them, do not have them!! If you put in as much effort as I do - you will feel as though you are pulling a large truck behind you, with the brakes on, every waking moment! You will be physically and emotionally drained, hopefully it gets better when they move out. I hope so!

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  • I used to hate babies. I didn't even look at them. I just didn't like how it would cry and seek attention all the time.

    Now my older sister had a baby. I still hated babies, didn't even look at my nephew. After a while of seeing him daily, I finally touched his head and his hands. He gave me a big smile and always looks at me. So now I had to keep him with me once in a while since my sister had things to do and it wasn't that bad.

    My favorite thing to do is to "PLUG THE BABY!" when he starts crying. He then smiles and sucks on his pacifier.

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  • madme

    It's great that you know that you don't want children, now do everything to make sure you don't have any!!!!!! It's okay to be selfish and hateful as long as you don't have a child...because that child wouldn't have asked to be born either and would deserve a better mom than you....just sayin' bitch

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    • MahBoi24

      LOL I love how butthurt breeders get when someone says anything negative about pwecious wittle miwacles. :-P

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  • Dolcevita

    Normal!!! Kids are a lot of work and are overated. I dont have any and most annoy me and i want them to go away.

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  • chicken471bologna

    I'm going to say normal. But you sound like a total fucking idiot!

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  • Bainne

    I hate children and babies! Recently, My sister had a child and every time I say to my friends "God, I hate children!" They always reply with "What about your niece?!?!!?oneone!?"

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