Is it normal that i hate and love my boyfriend, all at once?

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Okay, so basically.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over two years. We fight a lot over absolutely nothing it feels like, sometimes. But sometimes I just feel like he's trying to piss me off and not seeing my side or something. For example, this is going to be a little embaressing but anyways, last night we were hanging out. He had told me earlier that day that he wanted to have sex, so I started making out with him and stuff, and I pulled down his pants or whatever, but I wasn't doing stuff fast enough I guess, so he pulled his pants back up. So I was kind of like, okay then? So then I tried kissing him a few minutes later, and he pushed me away. We were laying on like opposite sides of the bed by that point. So then, he got mad at me and got up and was like I'm just going to go lay on the couch by myself. I was like, I really don't want to fight, why are you being like this? But those kind of situations (not with the sex but the difficulty) are the situations we're in all the time. And lately, I find that he just really gets on my nerves. For no reason. Like, we'll be in the car and he'll honk the horn and I'll just not even wanna be in the car with him anymore. And I start thinking that I just don't really wanna be with him anymore. But then there's sometimes where I feel like I could honestly marry him and be with him forever. Then when I'm not with him anymore, I just want to be or at least talk to him. Is this normal?

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  • abnormalhotchick
    12 years ago

    I'm in the same position. We just hit our 3 year anniversary, and at the beginning he was perfect for me, but now I feel as though I've grown up, at least to a degree, but he's stayed in the same place. He's become my best friend who doesn't act like one. I try to deal with things logically, even though he refuses to, but by the end of the argument I've turned into him!- acting immaturely, yelling, bringing up past arguments... Then he makes me feel like I'm not better than him, even though the only reason it comes to me acting like that is the way he's treated me through the whole process! Everyone has told me to dump him, but at the same time, he's my happy place. Sorry for the big, long explanation, but you know in your heart the right answer is to let him go. You just can't decide when to make that decision.

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  • abnormalhotchick
    12 years ago

    No* better

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  • Yumazing
    12 years ago

    He sounds very immature and just wants to push your buttons. Shut. It. Down.

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