Is it normal that i hate all (if not most) pregnant teens?

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I pretty much hate the way teens get when they find out their pregnant.

When they know they cannot afford to keep the baby they drag their parents down expecting that they'll pay for their baby (maybe not all teens do this but the ones I know do) anyway

I hate the way they start to get all baby crazy just because they weren't smart enough to use protection correctly and tell everyone about how proud they are, then their kiss ass friends support them with comments like "omg congrats girl name it after me" instead of thinking about the real things like how your actually throwing away you're life /: how the heck are you supposed to pay for college and a baby, and the worst part is their boyfriends don't even bother marrying them or even wanting to stay their boyfriends at all anymore, that they are only there to take care of the baby now

i'm sorry but is any of this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I know where you're coming from. I usually laugh whenever I hear a teen mom story because the girl has ruined her life.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I agree. It's stupid how now the girls have something to look forward to like those dumbass TV shows. Ugh it disgusts me. They're just being immature..

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  • JBN
    12 years ago

    What all this leads to is a black woman in Florida with 15 chirrin by 3 men, the last one in jail, and her screaming that someone needs to be accountable and who is going to feed "these" kids. She was yelling that someone is going to pay for this. See, none of this is her fault.

    Ted Kennedy got his dream and this is it.

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    • RoseIsabella
      11 years ago

      Only three baby daddies?

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  • Babe123
    12 years ago

    Have you ever thought about the ones who are rape victims??? One of my friends was raped at 16 and to forget about the wholething she starting acting all happy an planing baby showers just to get over it. Her parents kicked her out for being impure and that's just how she delt with it. Act happy and tell everyone that your proud and leave out the rape part.

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    • cipotaxloca
      12 years ago

      o.O i think it would be kinda weird to keep the baby of someone who raped them..

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    You're still young, some women naturally just want to be mothers and do so at a young age. That doesn't make them bad people or bad mothers though.

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    • Lynxikat
      12 years ago

      I think what s/he means, at least this is how I'm interpreting it, is that these teen moms are almost proud that they got pregnant, when really it just an accident, and they believe that getting themselves knocked up makes them feel like an adult, when it doesn't make them an adult- it just makes them look like a slutty teenager, regardless of whether or not they are.

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  • chope
    12 years ago

    I think you're stereotypical

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  • alvon33
    12 years ago

    what if your daughter got pregnant? would you hate her?

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    • Flaberghasted
      12 years ago

      Yep, i would punch her stomach and piss in her eye :)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    so... what? you want them to HATE their babies to make you happy?

    it sounds like you've decided there's only one course of action they should take. and why should they give up a baby just because YOU don't like it?

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    • cipotaxloca
      12 years ago

      hmm i don't remember saying ANYTHING about them having to hate their babies

      i said that how competely excited they get once they find out they are pregnant as if all of a sudden they are mature and responsible which they are not -.-

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        well then if you don't want them happy and don't want them hating the child ... what emotions do you dictate them to express?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I just think it's sad for the girl coz she didn't know what she was letting herself in for.

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  • Peanuts
    7 years ago

    Well, you don't hate the teen as such...Just hate the drain on the system which yes obviously is normal.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    It's all the fault of damn Murphy Brown show! Dan Quayle was right... Mwahaha!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Totally, I know a few girls who had kids in the teens and most of them aren't with the father anymore and most of those don't even have the father in contact with the child. People want to grow up too quickly. I don't get it personally, I want to have my first child at 25. I think that's young enough so I'm not too old when they grow up but not too young. But even that I might push back, aslong as it's not after 30 would prefer to have kids before I hit that mark.

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  • laxman209
    12 years ago

    Normally Teen moms have made that choice to have a child at that age. [not all]But I'm not a huge fan of Teenage mothers , as i consider they need to be able to enjoy life for a bit longer.

    But some teen moms are blessed with good parents and a good partner to help them.

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  • soupbowl21
    12 years ago

    Well, they are stuck in the position they are in. They aren't just going to mope around about their pregnancy the whole time. I'm sure they aren't happy about it, but rather, making the best of the situation.

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  • rin
    12 years ago

    Maybe it's their only way to cope? I'm sure they're not happy about getting pregnant.

    I do applaud the girls/couples who decide to have the baby but give it up for adoption when they know they can't take care of the baby.

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