Is it normal that i had my first sexual experience with another male?

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When I was about 12, me and my friend touched penises and pretended to have sex. We were so young and didn't really know what we were doing. It lasted less than a minute, but we regretted it soon after. To this day, I regret doing that. I'm so incredibly insecure about it, and I know that if it ever got out, my life would be ruined. To this day, I can't give you a reason for why we did that. We were young and just starting to go through puberty. I'd like to emphasize that both of us are 100% straight. Trust me. Both me and my friend have had our fair share of sex with girls. My life has moved on after that, but every once in a while, I think about it and it makes me sick. So my question to you is, is this normal?

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  • twocupcakes
    8 years ago

    I remember when I was 4/5, there was a older girl who used to come and babysit me. I remember her kissing my lips. And I find that so disgusting now coz a girl has kissed me.

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  • mightcrawler
    13 years ago

    Its sexual experimentation, normal! Get over it!!!!

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  • Carl
    13 years ago

    I think you think about it because it was a memorable time for you, and secretly, you'd like to do it again. You're just afraid of thinking of yourself as Bi or Gay. Forget the labels, do it again and see if you like it. I bet you would find that you wished you'd done it sooner.

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    • RyanS
      13 years ago

      Absolutely not. I'm not bi or gay. I've had sex before, I think I'd know by now if I didn't like women. I don't think about it that often, but when I do I just think "Why did I ever do that?"

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  • MESOMIKE
    13 years ago

    Your not afraid of others you're afraid of yourself. However unlikely that it would ever happen again, in some way you are scared shitless that you did it once....therefore you may do it again. Kids play. You're making way much of it, especially now that you DO know what you're doing!

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    • RyanS
      13 years ago

      I'm not afraid that I'll do it again. Trust me. I just feel guilty about it, even if it may have been "innocent".

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago

    A good friend of mine did the same thing as his first sexual experience. Never was with a guy again. I think it's normal. But no one wants to admit it.

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    Its not normal. I've never touched junk with another man.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Forget about it, and live your life. If either of you are gay, you'll be gay. If you're not, you won't. Either way, don't let a single incident decide your life. It's just something that happened. It doesn't mean as much as you think it does.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think so, kids do things without knowing the true implication or supposed implication. You were both young and your hormones were kicking into effect.

    Don't let one moment from the past dictate the course of your future. Btw, it's perfectly fine to have experimented, it means nothing and you're not the only one who has ever done anything like it. :)

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    • RyanS
      13 years ago

      Thanks, that made me feel better.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    As long as you haven't and never will do stuff like that with a man again then I think ur safe.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Bit of a homophobe are we? >.>

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