Is it normal that i get turned on by fire/burning things?

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I've always thought that pyrotechnics is sexy, concerts, action movie scenes, even lighters and matches. And since candles are considered romantic, I figured that was psychologically normal. But I really like when things are burning- paper, wood, etc. But I was just watching the movie "Heartless" starring Jim Sturgess, and there's a part where he sets himself on fire and they continually show him burning and I got pretty turned on. Its just a movie and I would never even consider burning a real person, but I felt uneasy at how hot it was- no pun intended.

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  • Problemchild21
    12 years ago | pl

    My friend you are what we call a Pyromaniac. This means you are turned on by flames and though u are not alone in your sexual love for flames its a dangerous thing to be turned on by and usually ends very badly. I suggest some therapy to help you figure out why this is a turn on because a lot of times people with your fetish get hurt badly or slowly start to develop other physiological issues.

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    • apple86
      12 years ago

      Thank you for your response- I appreciate it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Pyromaniac is someone who loves fire. Not gets turned on by fire... I should know, I'm a pyromaniac.

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  • SplinterWingz
    11 years ago

    You could be a pyromaniac (Like me) but it sounds like you're a pyrophillic. Someone who is sexually aroused by fire. You're not alone, theres others like us out there.

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    • azeulee
      4 years ago

      Many are women. Lots of young girls these days love being pyro.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have several friends who are sexually attracted to such things.
    I say it's completely normal!

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  • ImNotHere
    12 years ago

    it just means your hot...get it? :D trololololol

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  • Vhuggz
    12 years ago

    *Walks up to a hot girl*
    "Wanna be my hottie?"

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  • D!(K
    12 years ago

    i like to pour gasoline on my dick and on my gfs vagina and then when i am about to cum in her i light a match and throw it on their... it makes me cum really hard.

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  • howpowa
    12 years ago

    DESIRE THE FIRE.

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  • azeulee
    4 years ago

    Yes It's normal. I'm the same way as you. I love lighters, matches and candles too. Most of my girlfriends are pyros too. I'll have them flick lighters and strike matches just warm enough near my crotch to get me hard. I love watching houses burn down. I would love to drench the inside of a house with gasoline then toss in a stick of dynamite … … BOOM... then my girl and I strip nude and fuck as we watch it burn to the ground.

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  • angelswatchover
    11 years ago

    Freak....

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  • candleflame
    12 years ago

    sexual gratification with fire can be a very big turn on especially if you use matches. Its the sulfur making them pop on the book or box the strong sulfur course the heat. Its the thought of being dominated by some one who is sexy enough to be extreemily sexual with striking them. I tend to have really big orgasms from this. I masturbate this way alone with the matches striking them hard enough to make them pop on the box or book causing them to make strong sulfur smell.I like to get the match very close to my cock when doing this I do not burn mysef fire but the feel of the heat and the smell makes me hard and cum hard

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  • infinite
    12 years ago

    Hi, i've got a fire fetish as well. I love to be lit on fire, and i do set myself alight and let myself burn.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXgvt3wUNH4

    That's real, did that to myself a few days ago.

    There are some of us who really like this, as crazy as that sounds. I wish a woman would burn me, I love that! Wanna chat? Msg me on Youtube.

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    • apple86
      12 years ago

      Interesting videos you have there. Props- I don't think I could burn for over 10 seconds.

      For future reference, I've a boyfriend, so chatting is out of the question :/
      Tips on how to bring this up with him would be very much appreciated, though.

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      • infinite
        12 years ago

        That's cool you have someone, i respect that.

        As far as getting him to cooperate, i don't know how open he is to it, or what you like as well, but i'd say start slowly. Do you already light candles? If not, get some candles, tell him that you like the candlelight.

        From there, play with the candles lightly. Wave your fingers through the flame, if you're willing, or think of some cute sexy "innocent" thing you can do with the flame. If he doesn't make a big deal about it, or if he even gets turned on a bit by it, show him that it turns you on a bit. If he's pretty vanilla, just go slow and do sexy litte things for him with the flame.

        If you SHOW him that you're aroused by it with actions, he might come around. If he cares for you he'll probably take interest in what appears to turn you on. Use your judgement and be cute, sexy, playful, light, and even teasing.

        As well, you can make comments that can be explained away as playful teasing, but have truth behind them.

        If you get him to come around to at least thinking that your fingers running over the flame (and touching him with hot hands) are sexy,then you've got an opportunity to just go a bit further.

        But, just go slow and use your judgement unless you discover right away that he likes it. I had a girl once who admitted to me the first time we talked fantasy, that she wanted it in a burning house. I promised her she could have a burning man if she wants, and that's what she got.

        Good luck with your guy, i hope he will come around.

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        • apple86
          12 years ago

          thank you so much! I've had candles lit in the room before, but not enough to light the room- always at a distance. He's a pretty open guy, and he knows I'm open to a lot of things, so this might work out. At least a little bit. I don't expect him to do too much, but just a little would suffice for me.
          In a burning house sounds awesome. A lot of work though haha

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          • infinite
            12 years ago

            Awesome! Good luck with him. Let me know if you need some ideas on how to play.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Wether is normal or not, you are not the only one. I have this too. I often fantasize about having sex around fire.

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    • apple86
      12 years ago

      thanks! it's good to know I'm not the only one :)

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    You have a fetish. It's called pyrophilia. I think everyone has a fetish, so I don't think you're abnormal.

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    • apple86
      12 years ago

      Thanks :)

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    I've certainly never before heard of being aroused by something like this.

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    • shag776
      12 years ago

      you sir or madam obviously havent seen "Mr. Deeds" one of the greatest movies ever

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      • apple86
        12 years ago

        fecking hilarious movie.

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  • matches
    12 years ago

    I share this fetish especially the matches part! I am male and I started using matches when I was 12 because a babysitter I had got me turned on when

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    • matches
      12 years ago

      I was watching her strike them I got hard. are you male or female? I like having matches struck under my cock about 6 inches below it it feels warm and tickles a lot It makes me very very hard the more matches lit the more it tickles and it makes me cum extra hard. I have only been burnt once and it was very small You just have to be careful only hold as close as you can tolerate the heat

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Erm...ok.

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      • apple86
        12 years ago

        haha I'm female. thanks for the advice.

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  • ntn195
    12 years ago

    Freaks

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    • apple86
      12 years ago

      Slightly offensive, man.

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