Is it normal that i get this nervous around him?

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I recently got into a relationship with an AMAZING guy. We have been dating for almost a month now and I'm about to lose my freaking mind! He makes me extremely nervous and turns me into a babbling idiot sometimes during casual conversations.

It's driving me nuts because I can't seem to keep my cool around him. I keep losing my nerve. One day when we were talking, JUST talking, my heart was beating so fast and I felt so lightheaded that I had to sit down for a moment.

This has never happened to me before. In past relationships, I was always the one with extreme confidence who always knew what to say and when to say it.

But the worst part about all of this is, we have yet to become sexually intimate. What the hell is going to happen then??

Now I'm just at a lost... My level of can't right now is just... I just can't.

Is this normal?

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  • disthing
    10 years ago | pl

    First month of a relationship, you're all butterflies and tongue-tied, it's perfectly normal. As you get more comfortable with each other, that nervousness will subside somewhat, and you'll be able to be yourself, comfortably. You just have to hang in there. Also you could make light of it, tell him that he makes you feel nervous, in a good way. He certainly won't mind - who doesn't like the idea that somebody is so into them they feel lightheaded in their company?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Normal, because you like him. It's only been a month so the giddiness hasn't had a chance to regulate itself and lessen.

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  • Holzman67
    10 years ago

    The Nevada freeway awaits, go to it my child.... Run.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Normal. When I order my burger and it's the girl I have a massive crush on that is about to serve me I feel my heart beating faster and sweat oozing from every pore and my speech abilities slowly being impaired. I think it's a universal feeling.

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  • Isabella80s
    10 years ago

    Wow, sounds like you're into him. It will probably all calm down to a more reasonable level in a few months (prospectively). And things will evolve if you go forth into a proper relationship. Anyway, he might be flattered that he makes you feel this way!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    sounds to me like you've lost your mojo.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Can i insert my dick too?

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Only if you go in bareback.

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