Is it normal that i get this attached?

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I have been realizing lately that I get really "clingy" with people and most recently a stray cat. My first girlfriend's younger sister and I have been talking for roughly 3 months now legitally everyday but the bad part about it is she is 15....I'm 21(I know this is ridiculous) There's little things that she does that gets me mad like reading my text and not responding for 20 mins and then reply. I admit I have little experience dealing with chicks but I never had to deal with something like this and oddly enough we both got attached to each other. Just yesterday a stray cat showed up at my door soaked,so I got a towel for her dried her up and brung her inside,she fell asleep for 3 hours on my bed and I felt bad that I had to let her go later in the night since my dad is allergic to cats and I'm unemployed so I can't get shots for her. When I let her go yesterday I felt pretty bad about it. I haven't talked to anyone about this and I need the utmost honesty from complete strangers.

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    You seem to have some love and trust issues. Usually, clingy behavior comes from not feeling that you have had enough love and attention in your childhood. Some people try to correct this imbalance by clinging to anyone who shows them the slightest bit of affection.

    Just be patient with people. You have your entire life ahead of you to find affection and attention. Focus on trying to give YOURSELF more love and attention, too.

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  • DameInDistress
    11 years ago

    What's your name?

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    • party_in_my_pants666
      11 years ago

      Partyinmypants666

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      • DameInDistress
        11 years ago

        No, I mean in real life..

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        • party_in_my_pants666
          11 years ago

          Why you wanna know

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          • DameInDistress
            11 years ago

            Because I think I know you..

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            • party_in_my_pants666
              11 years ago

              You don't know me bro

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            • party_in_my_pants666
              11 years ago

              What state you from

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  • TheLlidD
    11 years ago

    ^ mhm. above is right on. Love yourself... in every way! haha, I don't know you, but I love you! Love you enough to consider and read your post!
    Now I am off to get a hair cut(for me), do some designs(for me), and plan my next 6-10weeks.(for me) while sometime this evening I may (or may not) hangout with a beautiful woman whom I am so fortunate to live with and have love from everyday.

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