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i am very insecure. i get jealous really easily. i get real nerves if someone is within 3 feet of my girl. i let it happen but I dont much care for other guys to talk to her. Is it normal to be this way?
Geez.. I wish my husband would be Jealous.
I could go out dancing all night and he wouldnt call me Once ! He would just ask me the next morning if I had fun. I Hate that he never askes me where I went or who I went out with.
its normal, just because you're paranoid doesnt mean youre wrong. if your girl is pretty, and a guy who is talking to her is a normal guy, he got his interests.
Well, it's not necessarily healthy, so I didn't vote.
You need to get the root of your insecurities to try to find out why you are so insecure. - Have you had a girl cheat on you before? - What were your relationships like with your parents as you were growing up? (Perhaps you weren't close to a parent which has made you crave companionship in a girlfriend?)
If you can find the root cause of your insecurities, you can reach a solution.
To be jealous is one thing, but someone has to make a pass at my woman before i get worked up. It sounds (and please take no offense) that you may have a trust issue.
I partially agree... I agree that it may be a trust issue.
However remember... being jealous because other people talk to her - even if they make passes - is pointless... unless you think she's going to cheat.
I've said this about men and it's the same for girls too. They're not books you just pick up and stuff in your pocket and walk off with. You CANNOT steal them unless they're WILLING to leave you.