Is it normal that i get sad when i like someone?

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When a guy is interested in me, I like flattered because I know I make him happy in some way.

But when I am interested in someone I feel sad, I feel like he will hate me or I will bother him, if I say hi to him I think he's like: "oh it's her again, she's so annoying". So I feel very embarrased and depressed.

Maybe it's my mom in my head making me think I'm disgusting and not able to be loved. But how can I change this pattern of thinking?

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Aww. Your mom was wrong. You're awesome and i love you.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    I feel the exact same way! Even at this moment :'(

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  • JadeyGirl9
    11 years ago

    Start to become more confident in yourself! Be happy with who you are!

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  • starkid
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    After reading your post... I think i might have a huge crush on you.

    Will you go out with me?

    {>*_*}>+<{*_*<}

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    • blackhummingbird
      11 years ago

      oh, but of course love :3 (y)

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  • blackhummingbird
    11 years ago

    Your mother most be jealous of your beauty and youth.

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    • youngoddess
      11 years ago

      haha this sounds a little funny, I really don't think she even thought I was a human being... but you are really nice, thank you.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Wow what a coinky dink i feel the same way it's like we are the same person.

    Ermagud i need to write home and tell everyone about this discovery i thought i was the only one whoo whoo i am so glad i am not alone thank you for sharing your experience with me whoo whoo.

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  • youngoddess
    11 years ago

    Thta totally makes sense, like when I am happy I try to look for something that tells me that my happiness is not real and everything is going to end soon with a shocking result, and I start imagining horrible things and of course I get depressed again. It's like I'm scared of good things.

    Your words are really sweet, thank you so much.

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  • fartonmyface
    11 years ago

    I really understand where you're coming from and I, as a male, behave the same way sometimes with girls. It ruins my chances often because it shows lack of confidence. The root of the problem is your unhappiness and depression. When someone is depressed, it's almost like when something good happens to them, they process it and try to find the negative side about it to bring them back down. I am the same way as you, and just as I do, you should hope to find someone who appreciates the way you are , at least enough to later find out what an amazing person is behind those curtains of depression. Lots of people say that you need to learn to be happy with yourself and on your own before you can be happy with someone else. And this simply is not true. If it was, relationships would be pointless. The goal of a significant other is to make eachother happy. Remember, it's always easier to make someone else happy than it is yourself.

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  • youngoddess
    11 years ago

    I never thought there was other people who felt the same, really... It feels better to know I'm not alone

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