Is it normal that i get sad because i am fat.

Im a very handsome black male with red hair and green eyes, but there is one problem, im fat. and i get sad. My brother is younger than me, he is fit and also hansome. I guess that i just get sad that he gets all the girls(he is not that great of guy to be with) and i dont usually get in relationships. if i do they dont really last. but im a great guy. i really am. its just that girls just want men to treat them like crap rather than the queens that they are.
Am i thinking right?

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  • dirtybirdy

    You're unhappy because you eat. You eat because your unhappy. Vicious cycle. Stop it. Eat better. Exercise. Smile.

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  • Skylae

    Yeah it's normal to be sad because you're fat, but it seems like you're looking at yourself in terms of that being your one flaw. (Sorry if that sounds harsh, it's not meant to). Saying 'girls want guys to treat them like crap' is a little bit suspicious to me - unless every girl you've ever met has ridiculously low self-esteem, I think you might be mistaking 'girls don't want to go out with me, a nice guy' with 'girls only want to date jerks'. And that doesn't have anything to do with being fat, tons of fat people are in wonderful relationships. I think this might be two separate issues. So with number one, either start eating healthier and doing more exercise, or just try to come to terms with yourself the way you are. With the second issue, you may want to look at yourself more closely (personality wise) and see if there is something else stopping you from being in a relationship. I'm sure that once you have more self confidence (whether that's because you're thinner or not), it'll be easier to form lasting relationships.

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    • disthing

      Well said :)

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    • Thanks. You really helped me

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If your unhappy because your fat, then lose weight. It'll be hard, but if you work at it you'll get results.

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  • whatswrongwithme22

    Well you would rather be fat that anorexic right?

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  • Justsomejerk

    Im fat and I get sad - that's two problems.

    Cheer up, you're the only ranga who can go in the sun.

    Get out, meet some fat girls with low self esteem.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    It's not your weight, it's how you carry it. Be fat and happy and girls will love you.

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    • Mark3L

      Thanks

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  • "Im a very handsome black male"
    In all honesty, maybe things would fare better for you if you weren't so cocky. :/

    "its just that girls just want men to treat them like crap rather than the queens that they are."
    Is that so? A crying shame if there ever was one.

    Now anyway, just lose weight. It can be hard as hell, but I'm sure that won't stop you, right?

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  • shuggy-chan

    u fat black ginger HAHA

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    • NotFloydzie

      Be nice, Shuggy. Remember, you're Asian.

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      • Mmmpfh

        Burn? I think that was a burn.
        HIGH FIVES ANYWAY!!! ( '-')/ Anyone...?

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  • KacyWatson

    That's not normal at all you should be perfectly happy that you are fat it means that you're well fed. :)

    You have plenty of access to loads of food and resources!
    Get fat be proud!

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  • daydreamer394

    Lose weight then ... try being ugly and not being able to do anything about it.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    *power craps on the floor twice

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  • GuessWho

    You should be sad about being fat. That may motivate you to diet and exercise in order to become happy.

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  • Yumazing

    .... wait. I think we been trolled.

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  • disthing

    Black with red hair and green eyes?!

    I won't believe it until I see it! :)

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    • Mark3L

      Go and look at my picture

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  • Ewwww a ginger.

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