Is it normal that i get really upset when my boyfriend gets horny?

Since you're only 19, I would probably date someone like you. Even though having a boy/girlfriend basically means having sex with them nowadays, it's not what it should be until the relationship gets really deep.

Wow !! Girl Im wondering the EXACT same thing! Im 19 and just recently lost mine.. and I hated it when my dude got horny, it happened almost instantly after he's sees me.
I dont think sex is a big deal.. and dont really care about having it.

I dont think its cuz your not into men, but I do need to tell you my thoughts and how it was with me. I thought I loved my dude but then all this stuff (same as you) started happening, well then he just dont turn me on or make me want to have sex. I think that the cuddling, and doing fun stuff should be enough. Well anyways.. I think you should take a break from him.. Idk if this means that he is the problem or it is just something about you (Im still wondering the same lol) but it was my solution.
And one more thing is DONT have sex and lose your v-card unless YOU really want to and YOU are ready! I made a mistake and lost mine then found that them things was a problem. You'll hate yourself afterwards. Also with these things going on, and you really dont wanna have sex with him its going to be a problem with your relationship, and you wont be fully happy with him.
Good luck hunni, I really hope this helps!

This is rude but I can't handle women like yourself. The good Lord gave us sex, we are MEANT to have and enjoy sex. I was married to a woman who only slept with me 26 times in 3 1/2yrs of marriage. I really began to hate her and her coldness. And I cheated, and married the woman I cheated with-18yrs now. So do him a favor, dump him kindly, and go join a convent. Unbelieveably un-normal!

YOUR ALL FAT

Lol. All these moron men telling you that you aren't normal because your boyfriend doesn't turn you on. You are normal. You aren't perverted like the rest of this shit eating corrupt world. Kudos. Some day, a real man might turn you on. I never had a sex drive until I was 22 and the dudes around me started becoming men instead of skinny insecure little boys. Plus, a lot of men only know how to have "porn" sex and have no fucking idea what really turns a girl on. Things like being held and protected and touched lightly etc.

Hey therealdeal- that doesn't sound like her problem. You probably didn't turn her on. News flash cave man, women weren't put here to put out for you at your every whim. You sound like a lame excuse for a man. I recently heard a male marriage counselor talk about this. He said if your wife isn't putting out for you, you don't deserve it.

Lots of women get upset when their dude gets horny. But then again, the gurl might like it too. It's normal, don't worry. Try convincing him to stop if you don't want him to!

Your 19. Explore yourself first. Discover that orgasm which makes you wish somebody else can get you off like that. And makes you want to do yourself again. It's yours to enjoy. Then, you teach your boyfriend what you want. He doesn't comply, you can find one who does.

Check out a dirty mag, a video. I found reading erotica was a great curiosity starter. Wont happen overnight. Maybe it will. But, your not 30 or even 40 yet. Wait til you blossom then! Holy nympho rocket cougar syndrom! Just about gaurantee you will be wearing out all kinds of devices after wearing out the poor lad you just exhausted from every pleasure method you required.
Your fine. Your normal young girl not yet up to par in experience. Then, there are those opposite few hungry young teenage kittens who become feeding frenzy Sexzillas who have to have their addicted fuck fix.

It's also reason some men don't go for the youngin types. They're not in the mood, not able to fully please, highly vunerable to emotional attachment issues.
Don't be pressured. Don't let Mr. BonerNeedingToFckYouNow get to you. Why do something you don't want. Take your time, explore in private and let discovery release your untapped horny as hell maturity.

Maybe you're not attracted to men? (This isn't meant as an insult, just a thought)

A relationship at that age won't happen without sex. At least jerk the guy off once in awhile. lol

That's supposed to be a compliment. Maybe your boyfriend is ugly, and he can't turn you on.

wow, you are really missing out.
once you do eventually have sex you will be like um where has this been?

well i think because you are still a virgin, you dont understand what is so great about sex. if you are not ready to have sex, then dont. he is horny because you havent had sex and because he cant have it, he wants it more. if you do end up having sex with him, it will be really quick because he has waited and the next time you have sex, it will be better but only if you want it. do you get intimate at all with each other? if you are not sure, then maybe you should experiment a little and then see how you feel after. if you didnt like it, or didnt feel comfortable then take your time to do it again. sex with someone you love is a wonderful thing and it is actually very good for your health. but if you decide that you want to and then change your mind half way through, just make sure your bf knows to stop otherwise it could be the worst first time ever and you will never ever want to have sex again.

Stop being a prude and give it up

I lost my sex drive at the age of 18 (it was really high before that, but then it just disapeared). A lot of people will tell you that you just don't know how great sex is because you're a virgin, but it's totally possible that you just don't like it. I mean, trust me when I say that most teenage virgins are some of the horniest people on earth. Back when I was horny, I loved sex, but now I dislike it. I don't think it's normal, and it's certainly kind of sad, but you may be the same way.

Don't get pressured into having sex. Do it on your own terms.

GET MARRY! IT MAY CHANGE A LOT!!!

Normal? No
Natural? Yes

A woman can do ANYTHING she wants with her temple or in this case "not do". As a man i can honestly say i get horny on and off over the day for NO REASON AT ALL. It just happens and then it's gone =\ But even when i do get horny for a legit reason i don't mind if my girl throws on the brakes. Personally i don't think sex should be a must in a relationship. It's a tool of love and if you don't recieve pleasure from it, then there is no point in doing it =\ plain and simple.

YOU KNOW WHAT for all the guys that made those mean comments you need to write a better comment and yes i'm a male -well what ever you believe is what you go for( woah) its your decision i to somtimes feel like not having sex with my wife when she wants to so think from your heart

It's fine

don't walk to a therapist, RUN

You get mad? lol kinda a natural thing it's like if he got mad when you sweat..just be glad he agrees and is waiting with you because it kinda looks like he's uhm..ready to go

I take that back. he does deserve it cause he haven't broke up with you yet (unless he is getting some elsewhere)

^Wtf

yo whats up my peeps ok fist of all im a girl and sec dude if your boyfreind does that then tell him your over da.Thats all i have to say peace

You're 19 relax will you? Your sex drive probably just hasn't kicked in yet, and even if it dosen't, well then maybe a boyfriend with a high one isn't for you.
It's understandableto get frustrated when that happens,but you have to understand that he can't help himself.

break up with him, he don't deserve to be tortured by a moron of your size.

He's wasting his time staying with you. He has needs you can't or won't meet, your relationship won't last.

once you have your first orgasm a little light will go on and it will all make sense

haha.. i love it.

it's like a sign that something fun is going to happen very, very soon :D

If u ain't gonna give it to him he will just get it somewhere else simple